My best friend is the nicest,most kindest and trustworthy friend a person could have. But..... she has this other friend, which is now my friend (cause i know every person she knows) and this girl is MEGA annoying!!!!!! she is my friend still, because i don't want to hurt her feelings, but she spits when she talks, says words weird like: everbody instead of everybody! and has the worst sense of style, but tells me i look GOOFY. I have just about had it with her and if i don't get advice on what to do about her, i may get really angry with her and i don't want to cause a fight!!! so can someone tell me a way to get the msg across to her without hurting her feelings (she gets hurt really easy) HELP.....HELP......HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-10 23:44:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
alrite, i hav a friend like that but shes my best friend. when she spits u should say: say it dont spray it and laugh. and wen she gets "MEGA annoying" then just go and play with some of ur other friends or just ignore her. and even though she has bad sence of style then just go shopping with her and help her choose her clothes. or just be happy of who she is and if shes happy leave her.
hope this helps u
2007-04-11 00:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by cathleen e 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she gets hurt really easily, she's no threat. she dosn't like her own game. people like her do get to my right nerve.
the bad bit is, Does you friend still like her?
cos if she does, there is nothing you can do for her cos if she likes her, you can't make someone else fall out with her. thats when a game turns into bullying, and that can happen any time any age. Just bring up things at random times like, yea we should go shopping next week we can go get a wardrobe full of clothes that are so different from the things we have already, if not slowly move away from her, you can still be friends with your other mate even if your not friends with her in the future. lifes a funny thing and very difficult to work good luck.
2007-04-11 06:50:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't find a positive way to reinforce her good behaviors and ignore her other behaviors (ones that annoy you), then you will have to spend time elsewhere when she comes around. You can tell your friend why you don't like her other friend, but really, it's not fair to try to shame someone from being friends with whoever they want to. This other girl must have some great qualities or else your kindest, nicest friend wouldn't like her.
2007-04-11 07:39:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your best friend is your best friend then you should be able to talk to her about this. Instead of telling this girl to stop spitting, get a sense of style and speak properly you'll have to avoid being with her, find out when shes about and make plans to do something else. She should soon get the message. sorry thats not a great help but its all i can think of!
2007-04-11 06:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by butterflykisses.ie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is your best friend or friend rather, say what you feel, it counts that way. she be hurt or not friends must help each other to change, you can do it, but don't make it so rash,. and if you talk to her or him make sure no one notices! when the right time comes, go for it!!! remember, direct to the point yet calm and an urge of friendly tone in your voice. good luck ^^
2007-04-11 07:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by ~`shino_kikai129`~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, did u ever stop 2 think dat maybe u annoy her. What makes u think dat ur not bothering her somehow. Y don't u ask her?
2007-04-11 06:56:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your best friend is all that you say she is, then you should be able to talk to her about this situation. After all what are best friends for!!
2007-04-11 06:56:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her to stop and that you dn't like what she's doing you still want to be her friend,but she's creeping you out! tell her how you feel.
2007-04-11 08:27:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you know how to avoid people?
2007-04-11 07:00:42 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blackmale her and tell her to leave the state.
haha
2007-04-11 06:50:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋