I hv a frnd who treats me like an available option in her life. She talks to me once or twice in a week and she calls me according to her convenience. I get this feeling that she is using me for her time pass. Bcoz she never calls me when her relatives r with her. She calls me only when she is bored or when no 1 is there to talk to her or if she has nothing else to do or if she wants a shoulder to cry on and an ear to listen to her she calls me. In a way she tells me like, "there is no body in the house and the light went off was feeling ver bored" with this I feel like she think of me bcoz she has no other thing to do. If I dont talk to her she runs behind me and gets me back to her and when I am with her she runs away from me.
I like to talk to her daily but as she shows that she is very busy I left on her to call me and I dont call her bcoz I feel I would be disturbing her. I just dont know what to do.. its more than a week now she has not called me and not even a text. what 2 do?
2007-04-10 22:53:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You sound like the back up buddy here. Cosmo had a really good article on how being a 13itch sometimes can be a good thing. For one, when she calls you in her once a week routine, or when she is bored, tell her you're busy and will talk to her some other time. When she calls you up to go hang out because she has nothing better to do, tell her you have already made plans, and in a way it is kind of rude for her to always assume that you are free when it is convenient for her.
Straight outta cosmo, so it has some good advice.
2007-04-10 22:59:55 · answer #1 · answered by Konjo Nashi Pirate™ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit contacting her. If she is interested, she will get back with you. Some people are just to busy to be on the phone all of the time. On the other hand, do you two get together occasionally? If you don't, then she is probably not interested in being much more than a casual acquaintance.
2007-04-11 06:00:26 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It looks like she is using you alright! The next time she calls, tell her you're busy. She can't just barge in on you like whenever. Don't call her. If she tries contacting you atleast twice after that, maybe you could give her another chance. Anyway, dude, you don't have to listen to me. It's your life, your decision.
2007-04-11 06:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry----sometimes friends do not know how to BE good friends-----just USERS-----you have to BE a friend to HAVE a friend--but if you have to tell her that it's no good------call her and bug her when you feel you need a friend and if she is rude then you will know it's time to shop for a new best friend.------good friends do not come along often in our lives-----if you can salvage your friendship ---please do.
2007-04-11 06:05:11 · answer #4 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
forget her she no worth having aroung if she acting like this.
Next time she calls pretend ur to busy to take to her she how she likes it
2007-04-11 06:00:49 · answer #5 · answered by XXkarlaXX 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion instincts are never wrong
2007-04-11 06:09:19 · answer #6 · answered by ambidextrous25 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you get your legover what's the problem?
2007-04-11 05:58:29 · answer #7 · answered by Del Piero 10 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋