For some unknown reason i didnt ask her to marry me, she got sick of waiting and has walked out the door. This has devastated me, she seems very strong about her decision of not coming back. I would marry her tomorrow if she gave me the chance and ive told her that. She said if i asked her 3 months ago she would have said yes. Ive tried everything to get her back. Am i wasting my time or have i still got a chance of rekindling a happy relationship with her. I'm not willing to just give up on her because she is special. She felt like i put $$$ and work ahead of her. She loved me sooo much and it wasnt that long ago!!!! At the moment im giving her space, we havent spoken in a week!
There might not be such thing as pyschics but whats your opinion!!!Serious answers only please!!!!!!
2007-04-10 22:40:54 · 7 answers · asked by N. Andrews 2 in Science & Mathematics ➔ Astronomy & Space
Things happened. You can't change it, it's best to leave it behind and figure out what to do now.
I think by giving her space, you make the best choice.
Stay calm and wait till things cool down, see how she reacts then decide your next move.
Be positive, think positively, avoid being negative. It soon will be over. Tough time will never last!
2007-04-10 22:55:22 · answer #1 · answered by James 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not something which happened all of a sudden.
She warned you a while ago that she required more of a commitment. You thought she was bluffing. Now you are willing to marry her if she comes back. Getting married under these circumstances is not ideal, as it seems to be a threat or ultimatum. Get engaged, then, after a year, get married, things will seem calmer and clearer then.
2007-04-10 23:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by Labsci 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she communicate any of this to you prior to leaving?
If she did, then I'd say too bad... you should have listened.
If not, I'd say you have a fighting chance on the grounds of fairness and communication. For instance, I'd ask her why she didn't communicate this to me before just taking off. Like you said, there isn't any such thing as psychics, so why did she expect you to be one? How is that fair to either of you?
Really, it boils down to communication (or lack thereof) and how the breakdown in communication occured.
Sorry about your girl and I hope this helps!
2007-04-10 22:46:30 · answer #3 · answered by p37ry 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kool, u put this in the astronomy and space section...
I think that if she is willing to suddenly destroy a relationship that took 10 years to build, then she can't have loved you.
Or maybe something (3 months ago) freaked her out, or maybe you have competitors who are courting her...
2007-04-10 22:56:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women... The greatest mystery in the universe. Sorry. No scientific theory can explain them.
2007-04-10 23:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by DrAnders_pHd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say the woman is mental and leave her for someone less materialistic, needy and inpatient.
2007-04-10 22:51:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot figure out how in my wildest imagination this has something to do with astronomy!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-10 23:56:06 · answer #7 · answered by Gene 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋