For some unknown reason i didnt ask her to marry me, she got sick of waiting and has walked out the door. This has devastated me, she seems very strong about her decision of not coming back. I would marry her tomorrow if she gave me the chance and ive told her that. She said if i asked her 3 months ago she would have said yes. Ive tried everything to get her back. Am i wasting my time or have i still got a chance of rekindling a happy relationship with her. I'm not willing to just give up on her because she is special. She felt like i put $$$ and work ahead of her. She loved me sooo much and it wasnt that long ago!!!! At the moment im giving her space, we havent spoken in a week!
There might not be such thing as pyschics but whats your opinion!!!Serious answers only please!!!!!!
2007-04-10 22:39:15 · 14 answers · asked by N. Andrews 2 in Science & Mathematics ➔ Alternative ➔ Paranormal Phenomena
ok honesty up front... I am no pyschic but here's my opinion for what it's worth..
Firstly you have to accept that there is a possibility that what you had is gone forever , BUT still be prepared to try once more...
Perhaps you could send her some flowers, or if you can afford to send her a gift voucher for a day spa, tell her that you are backing away , that you don't want to be in her face and that you do love her and regret more than anything not taking that step to a committment...
Tell her that you can not wind back time, but given the chance you would do things differently....
Tell her that you will let her be for ( set your own ) a period of time.. But ask her to contact you after that and see if THEN she's prepared to sit down and talk with you to see if there is indeed ever going to be the possibility that you can rekindle what you had and grow from there...
BUT ... if nothing else , and while it isn't what you desire the most .. strive for friendship ..respect .. and whatever happens maintain your dignity :)
goodluck,
and do exactly that ...
2007-04-10 23:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by ll_jenny_ll here AND I'M BAC 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My advice, don't wait for her to come back to you. Don't change anything that is work related. Go out as a single man and enjoy your life. There is a lot you have to catch up on after 10 years. You should to get to know yourself as a single man. Hold your head and chest high.
I'm sure your gf is very special. But, after 10 years I would think it would be clear to her that you love her and would probably do anything for her. With her knowing that and not giving you the time of day for 7 weeks is a joke. 7 weeks is 1176 hours she hasn't paid attention to you. Add up the the time you came home late from work and I'm sure it will not add up to 1176 hours.
You are a man and you are in the middle of a problem you can't fix because the other half of the problem is not willing to work with you, so it will be a lot harder for you to get over it. The only way to fix the problem is to fix yourself.
Don't rush into a new relationship.
I see she is not coming back to you. She is using your job for her excuse to hide the real reason why she no longer wants to be with you. You need to get over her she is over you.
2007-04-11 20:17:30 · answer #2 · answered by ed14790 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is fairly not something which surpassed off at cutting-edge. She warned you a collectively as in the past that she required extra of a dedication. You thought she replaced into bluffing. Now you're keen to marry her if she comes returned. Getting married under those circumstances isn't appropriate, because it variety of feels to be a large gamble or ultimatum. Get engaged, then, after a 300 and sixty 5 days, get married, issues will look calmer and clearer then.
2016-10-28 10:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by michale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Que sera' Sorry to hear of your problems, but now that the whole world knows, there is hope, hope that you will not repeat the same mistake in the future, hope that your gf will reconsider, and hope that the psychics of the world will take a vote and declare you the winner. Actually, I am neither psychic nor particularly compassionate for your plight. You are in control of your future, believe it or not. If you want her back, grovel. Flowers, chocos, the whole nine yards, and do not forget to propose at some point. The worst that can happen is she will say no, and you will have to get on with the rest of your life. If you continue to "give her space", I can guarentee you will not get her back. LOL
2007-04-11 02:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by jpturboprop 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
she loves you so much?and she do not want to know
nothing about you,she is very selfish,have you seen this from another perspective,maybe she is playing with your mind,
and you feel guilty now,but the real question is,are you both
meant to be together for a life time?,or did you deserve what
she has done to you?things like that happen for the better
and not for the worst?however you can discard she is very sensitive and outside pressures(friends,family)had been
telling her things like ,he had should marry you long time ago,
blah,blah,blah,and tend to be suggestive and suggesting her by those commentaries in a negative form,however the
lesson for you in here is,do not take nothing for granted!
2007-04-11 13:50:53 · answer #5 · answered by kokopelli 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-04-11 05:44:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is the second higest thing besides her that you love on this earth that she knows? Give it up to show your love for her. Tell her after you've done it. Then for one week, send her her favourite flowers and teddy bears.
Send her a poem written by you and tell her every morning that you love her.
Stay quiet for two days after and ask her to dinner. Send her to a day spa for that entire day before the dinner.
Take her to an expensive restaurant.
Marry her.
2007-04-11 04:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by supercalofragilistic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she really did love u, im sure she'd give a second chance. but if she relly dont want to be with u at all just because u hadnt propose, and thats the end. ure lucky she did walk away, because u wouldnt want an impatient companion for life would u?
2007-04-11 05:30:50 · answer #8 · answered by Made 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is wrong with you dude?cant you tell that she don't want you anymore coz of the obvious reason which is she found a much better person than you!!you wasting your time posting your problems to people like us who don't really care about you or you girlfriend but one thing i'll tell you.....learn your spellings right then you most probably will get you some nice girl...yah! use the money you made to go back to school to learn spelling!!..lol
2007-04-11 19:56:14 · answer #9 · answered by proofd12ke 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give in to your anger! Strike me down and you shall have your woman back. Use the power of the Dark Side of the Force!
2007-04-11 04:15:47 · answer #10 · answered by Darth Vader 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋