i just want to leave world u can say want to die now i had no will power and stamina to face this world
2007-04-10 22:20:07 · 8 answers · asked by cadbury_rm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are a sensible lady, educated, understand the social morality, & a good cook too. Age wise only 25years only. I can understand that because of greedy husband & in-laws you got divorced. I am almost double your age still bound in my social obligation & wish to die as a social member of the society not as a religious baba searching nothing in no where & telling everyone after few years 'I found God', 'I found truth', 'I found knowledge', because one need not to go or follow any religion to know all this, he/she find all these things daily around us. A failure in life is part of life, & from each failure we learn a lesson not to repeat it, if your marriage met with a failure it does not mean you leave every worldly thing & become some religious baba or Mata, even recently some religious lady/Mata found interest in her boyfriend & ran away with him leaving behind ashes just to give impression of her being turned into ashes by some religious miracle. I am not telling any story this was in news few months back. Now you see how even these so called religious saints work for whom people like you think are great & want to follow on their foot steps. If you do the something after few months or years then better it would be to do it now as a lady you are not as a religious saint about whom I just mentioned. Find a suitable match & get married again, everything will be fine.
2007-04-11 02:50:33 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become Amish I guess... I'm sure you wouldn't have much to do with the "social world" plus you couldn't be too social there unless you speak Pennsylvanian Dutch! LOL
Seriously though, chin up hun. You're still young and the world will try to eat you no matter if you're married or single. Look at yourself and find the things within yourself that have been pushed aside. Ideas of things you always wanted to do but haven't, skills you haven't put to use. Maybe there's something new you'd like to learn or do... We have to make things happen for ourselves sometimes and hun I'm thinking this is one of those times for you. The faster you can move on to bigger better things the better off you'll be and feel. Be glad if you have good health for there are so many people who are not healthy. Be grateful for anybody who shares love with you, even yourself. You must love and care about yourself or nobody else will. Now is the time for you to focus on the good and positive things you hold, remember how fortunate you are. Maybe you could try volunteering in a nursing home, it may give you the rude awakening that you seem to need. Adopt a pet maybe.?. Above all you can't feel sorry for yourself cuz it will get you nowhere.
Good Luck, I will be thinking of you...sorry if I was too harsh : (
2007-04-10 22:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No body in this earth can suggest anybody to die.
From this note with pathtic words seems you have lost all the pleasure of life from this meterilistic world and you had have enough from your ex hunband and or from your children if they are. You have been made victim for all the episode and you appears to be lost the battle.
No ! you have not.
Remember you have not come to this world at your own will nor you can leave this world at your own will.
You have struggled a lot and itm is struggle for existance.
To live try to recollect onl;y the joyaus moments of your life, try to recollect your thought you you first saw the rainbow. Rember the days when you were loved by your parents, remember the days you were first huged by your husband. Rember the days when you first saw you child.
only the good mements.
Life is vast!
And finally surrender to HIM
Let be peace on you.
2007-04-10 23:13:40 · answer #3 · answered by Gobinda Lal T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do some serious Soul Searching !!!
Believe me when I say: I know how unfair/rough/tough the World can be ... and u are in a situation in which it caught up with you ... now comes ure test of how you are going to deal with it, the World/Life/GOD is testing you !
And you need to make the right decision, believe in ure self and trust in GOD, u need to fight but to do so u also need inspiration, if that means becoming more in touch with ure religious side then do so, and fast !!! Just go to ure Temple/Mosque/Church depending on ure religion and seek the right path !
And remember "after every dark tunnel, there has to come light !" ... and learn to love ure self, coz YOU are the most important person/thing in ure life !!! ...Just try to do the best you can, u owe ure self that !
Hope you get out of this situation so0n and fight for ure self, God be with you !!!
♦*♦ Beware 0f The Gypsy Curses ♦*♦
2007-04-11 02:16:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get religious is get married again!!
It would do you good both personally and socially!!
2007-04-10 23:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
all divorcee's are not leaving the social world, it is better to opt to work .... and stand by own by earning..... and time is very good medicine for all these problem....
2007-04-10 23:10:28 · answer #6 · answered by dhanu k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dear,,,,, The thing is this that right now u r Dipressed....
Take my suggestion,........ Try to Meditate, Listen to Good Music.... Find out a job.... By this way you will be able to Keep busy yourself....
& Trust me Life is very "Beautiful..."
&& Ofcourse..... After taking a bath, you pray to GOD to give you strenght.... & I hope HE will help you, definately....
& Dear......
please dont get dipressed...........
Live ypour life happily.....
If you have any problem then tackle that.... Trust me God is there to help u.....
BE HAPPY ...............
ALL THE BEST...................
2007-04-10 23:25:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why dont u opt for job and make ur life beautiful ....rather than go to religious ....Life is gift og God ....U r born to meant......dont spoil ur life ....Life is like an icecream .......eat it before melts.....i advise to live ur life bindaaass
2007-04-10 22:46:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋