I don't know what to do! He follows me to class and stuff! And he's a nerd...anti-social kind of person!
2007-04-10 21:50:50 · 24 answers · asked by cutie_chick30 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He hides in the trees and watches me and my friends..Just sitting there?! Like wtf?
2007-04-10 21:58:30 · update #1
No...I've heard he had like a pretty bad childhood..Got molested or something?
2007-04-10 21:59:31 · update #2
O secret admirer (kind of reminded me of that song lol), maybe he's got something to say to you, just ask him.
2007-04-10 21:55:30 · answer #1 · answered by Quidam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible he has the same classes?
Maybe he is wanting to be friends with someone and thought you were a nice person or approachable.
You didn't give much information on the "stuff" to justify calling him a stalker.
Try not being so harsh, maybe he just wants a friend. He might turn out to be a great guy.
Amazing everyone is so quick to say call the cops, restraining order, and basically lock the poor kid up and she didn't give much information to go on. You people already have this kid guilty and put in jail!!
Chances are it's a crush, a harmless one at that. If he is smart he will look in another direction quickly before an angry mob forms. Geesh people get a grip. She didn't give you much to go on.
2007-04-11 04:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by BhitchyPrincess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its probably just a case of puppy dog love or something. he sounds like a kid who just need a friend in his life.
think about it. you said yourself he was probably molested as a child, think of how humiliating and awkward he must have felt and how lonely he must feel. those incidents right there have an effect on people's social skills because they dont know how to interact with everyone..they are scared what happened to them in the past can happen again by someone he gets close to.
so for some reason he must find you as a nice girl, it could be because yoiu are popular and everyone likes you and have no enemies. so based on what he thinks he probably feels that you are the only one he can trust so far.
just be his friend. he may turn out to be a nice guy. and if you're worried about what your peers will think keep it on the DL and slowly introduce him to them.
who knows.. if he dresses geeky you can give him a sense of style to maybe get more people to like him.
and if he has a trouble with talking to people, ask him why, and if he tells you try and help him to overcome that fear.
you never know what will happen. && if he weirds you out to bad after you at least ATTEMPT to be his friend tell him straight up..if it continues go to a teacher or principal or an adult you feel comfortable with talking to.
2007-04-11 11:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by johnny bananas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet!! I really think that you shouldn't pass up this opportunity. That sap is yours for the taking! Get to know him, and keep him in the 'friends zone' (I like you, but just as a friend). That's where the fun starts.
You should be able to get pretty much anything out of him; gifts, favors, laughs at his expense, anything. If you play your cards right, you can take advantage of the situation without having to sacrifice any of your social standing. The 'Dork' type usually wants nothing more than to talk to girls and as such, poses no real threat, so don't worry too much.
Good luck =D!
2007-04-11 05:18:35 · answer #4 · answered by Ahmad S 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Try going to one of your teachers and ask them to help to get this boy to stop. I have never seen a anti-social nerd before. Are you sure that's correct word to describe him. Nerds/geeks are pretty harmless and just need to be told to back off.
2007-04-11 04:57:47 · answer #5 · answered by braveheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being nice to him, nerds are people too. Maybe he just needs a friend, and thinks you seem like a nice person. At least try talking to him. If he gets too weird for you, tell him he needs to leave you alone, or you will report him to the principal. But try being his friend first.
2007-04-11 04:54:44 · answer #6 · answered by Speedy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone in your school. This could end up really bad. Talk to a teacher or a counsler about it. Take this very seriously! Act now before its too late.
2007-04-18 10:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by trojancowboy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go to a teacher or your Guidance office and report this. Things like this rarely get reported and can turn into something dangerous. I would definitely tell a teacher or someone right away.
2007-04-17 19:54:38 · answer #8 · answered by James G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEWARE!!!! and BE CAREFUL!!!....PLEASE. this happened to a friend of mine, and I would hate to hear about you in the news, as would your family!!!!
She had suspicions and was uncomfortable about a person with strange habits /past. She told us friends, but never mentioned it above rumor level. It was too late when we found that she had been attacked and emotionally scarred for life. This all could have been avoided with a little more communication!!!
2007-04-17 00:55:38 · answer #9 · answered by Texas Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to call the police nd report him. tell your parents of a trusted adult. ust because he was molested or something doesn't advacate stalking someone. that seriously creepy and he needs counsiling or mental help.
2007-04-17 16:06:05 · answer #10 · answered by Liv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋