hiya i have been with my bf for 1.5 years now and sumtimes when we have s*x and i go in the position with my legs on his sholders i c*m loads and it soaks the bed lyk loads !!!! and my bf last nite was lyk ergh after we had dun it when he seen the wet patch ! it has happened loads of times but not as much !
is this normal ! coz i felt really uncomfortable when he said ergh ! and i was upset about it ?
thanxs xx
2007-04-10 21:24:59 · 10 answers · asked by sara2007 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
when women ejaculate, it can be up to two litres of fluid, it is normal, and your boyfriend should be happy he's satisfying you, when I have sex with my girlfriend, I'm not happy unless there is a wet spot there, that's how I know I've done my job.
As for his response, tell him to do a little research on the woman body and shut the hell up.
2007-04-10 21:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Normal - yes absolutely. But your boyfriend could do with a lesson in bedroom etiquette!
It isn't nice that he said ergh, after all the fluid is a result of both of your contributions. But if he has a problem with it you can have sex with a folded towel underneith, also if you clean-up (dry-off) sooner after sex, to avoid a wet patch.
Apart from that I say GO GIRL!
2007-04-10 21:47:32 · answer #2 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, female ejaculation (that's the technical term) is quite normal and happens more than you think (mostly because girls are too embarassed to admit it). But there's nothing embarassing about it. The fluid comes from the Skene's Gland (and is *not* related to urine) and is caused to be released through stimulation of the G-spot. Which is why it happens in that position more than normal. There's nothing wrong with it, that is of course if you don't include getting your bed sheets wet.
2007-04-10 21:32:36 · answer #3 · answered by Samuel 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
thats normal he probably said ergh because he put his leg on the wet patch dont worry about it but talk to him and tell him how you feel about what he said im sure he didnt mean it like your thinking
2007-04-10 21:31:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've experienced this happening with women I have been with before. Seemed to be directly linked to the strength of the orgasm. Your boyfriend should be happy, means he's doing a good job.
2007-04-10 21:31:35 · answer #5 · answered by Timothy S 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Totally normal. I'm sure he didnt mean it like it sounded. I'm excatly the same, but my other half loves to see the wet bits x
2007-04-10 21:44:38 · answer #6 · answered by lovetheglamour 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to work on your pelvic floor excersises, it sounds like you are wetting yourself, id be saying ergh! too
ERGH!
2007-04-10 21:31:11 · answer #7 · answered by mumma_of_4 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, this is very normal! I'm like that too. Just enjoy yourself and he shouldn't say anything and be happy he's made you happy! Talk to him.
2007-04-10 21:51:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that he makes you feel so good!
just tell him that you don't complaint abut him putting loads into you!
just have fun!
2007-04-10 23:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by Just me! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to get lost
2007-04-10 21:34:59 · answer #10 · answered by TP 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋