why do men find it difficult to say i love u to their wives?

Answer 1

some wives tend to laugh when their husbands say that

so at the GWC (guys world conference) in 1357 they agreed that guys should stop sayin that phrase unless they are in certain situations

Answer 2

That's a little over-generalized. Often times we, (people,) try to simplify larger things by seeking answers to such questions. It's just going around in circles. The simple answer is, love is different for everyone. Marriage isn't right for everyone. Saying "I love you," may be uncomfortable because of the understanding of the word love for the individual or what it means for that person to be saying it when it would be said. Do not make the mistake of over simplifying things like love, (which is a word without an exact definition and can't be used restrictively anyway.) If there's one thing I can say about true love it's that it's independent of discipline. In fact, I might go so far as to say that it is begot by discipline. Women generally link love to discipline directly because of their instincts. "I have a child to raise damn it!" And men usually disregard this because of their instincts, "I have genes to spread!" But the discipline towards someone is not the love itself but what the love can inspire. True love is fleeting and can not be bought, sold or harnessed in anyway. Hell, I'm contradicting myself and ranting on. Well take from what I've said what you will.

Answer 3

Man's love to a wife are very different.... They may not say it to their wives.. however most man loves their wife whole heartedly.
On the contrary that some man do say they love their wives often, however they also say that to tons of gf outside too....

So at the end of the day which do you prefer?????

Ahusband that loves you deeply without uttering the words love..... or th eones that say that every once in a while just like he got so used to it.. it becomes a natural thing for him to do..?

take care..

Answer 4

Men find it difficult to say "I love you" to their wives because they haven't been brought up to verbally express their feelings and emotions. But they may often demonstrate their love in other ways--a look, touch, caress, the caring things they do, being there for you, helping out with things, putting your happiness before theirs, etc. There is more than one way to say I love you. Be open to all the different ways.

Answer 5

Men are not generally as vocal with thier feelings.Men assume that thier wives know they love them because they told them once and that should be enough!
Whereas women like to hear the words on a regular basis as they are constantly analysing their feelings etc.

Answer 6

I guess some men cannot express their feelings, at least not for a long period of time. Oh sure, they say it in the beginning but then they get lost in the shuffle along the way. Mine's the same but I know he loves me so it is not important that he has to say it.

Answer 7

Some men are taught that showing their feelings are not manly. Some men don't love their wives. And some were never taught how to say " I love you" to anyone.

Answer 8

Never had that problem, its not so much if they say it or not the most important factor is that they show their wives they really do love them. Words mean nothing unless they come from the heart and are backed up by one's actions.
-NmD!

Answer 9

I think most of the time problems in relationships occur because the guys simply cant suss out what a woman wants. Its true what they say, men are from mars!

Answer 10

I don't think that a husband should have difficulty saying I love you to his wife. If he has no difficulty expressing his emotions in any other ways, then I love you should not be a problem either.
My husband always tells me he loves me, and he's one of those very manly, macho, Monday night football kind of guys.