did you give it up or fight?
2007-04-10 20:56:35 · 25 answers · asked by ♥sexyangel♥ 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
yes.. but the bad thing is... he was in love with... HIMSELF! but, seriously, I wouldnt fight for his love. If he is truly in love with someone, it would be selfish to break that. if you truly truly love him, (and i know it sounds cliche) but let him go. if you love him, you'd want him to be happy, right? and although it hurts, its the best thing for you both. trust me... I learned the hard way.
find someone who can love you as much as you love them. you deserve it!
I fell in love with someone who still loved their ex.. it was horible. that was years ago though... and now Im glad I went on with my life, because I am now happily married to the greatest man ive ever met!
good luck with love and your life, sweetie. :)
take care.
2007-04-10 21:07:10 · answer #1 · answered by Mary Moon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A word to the wise, don't go there until she has broken up with the boyfriend and he has gotten over her. Her not liking him is not so much the issue as it is him still liking her. Respect him and his relationship. You would want the same done towards yourself if you were in his shoes. I would be very leery of hooking up with a woman that is looking for another man when has not even officially ended her current relationship. If she "cheats" on him behind his back, she will do it again to the next guy. If she feels justified in doing this because her boyfriend is such a bad guy then why is she not ending the relationship now? I'm sure that there are tons of excuses why she has not done it yet, but none of them are valid reasons. Have patience, and distance yourself until it's truly over. Not having to always be looking over your shoulder is a good thing. And a simple piece of paper called an order of protection is not going to stop him from retaliating if he decides to go there. Don't play Russian Roulette with other peoples relationships no matter how bad they are advertised to be. No woman is worth that.
2016-05-17 08:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy, and i am right now fighting for a girl who has been in love with someone else. Even if you are girl i think, you should do the same thing. Go for friendship first, romance started from best of friends is the best ever.
But if you can't do that, than don't view the other girl that he loves as your rival, (this is to avoid low self-esteem from comparing you and that other "girl") just approach him and don't think about other girls, so your end result will be maximum.
2007-04-10 21:10:03 · answer #3 · answered by Quidam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have fallen to a guy and he had fallen to a girl at that time. I never fight for it but he comes to me out of the blue and he is now my husband for 8 years. It's just so amazing to me.
2007-04-10 21:07:10 · answer #4 · answered by † Iríšh † 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah when i was in 5th grae. I wanted to be more than friends but then he was like i like this other girl. Now I look back and dont regret or give a damn. After a while the hole in the heart will close up and you will find a new love!!!
2007-04-10 21:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by almrox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought it was love but it was just lust. I put up a psychological fight you could say which actually worked but after i had him i didnt want him anymore, which is how i realized i never actually Loved him. So I would answer yes and no.
2007-04-10 21:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by minaarglinda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. he was not with the person he loved. I've tried for a couple of years but in the end I've started a relationship with someone else. my husband actually.
2007-04-10 21:19:49 · answer #7 · answered by **** if i know 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i fell inlove with a girl who loves someone ....i fought for her...and live happily ever after for 8mos. but ur a girl....guys should fight for you and not the other way around.
guys fight for girls...girls should be treated special and taken care of..
not following any guy who is not worthed of ur love
good luck!
2007-04-10 21:07:12 · answer #8 · answered by iceman0721 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. there were guys in love with me while I was in love with someone else, I use to talk all day long to them about the guy I was in love with repetitiously, so if it's like that just give it up.
2007-04-10 21:06:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didnt fight. i dont think i stand a chance anyways. when i knew him he was already in love with her. i have wanted to tell him, but didnt have the courage. what i am doing now is to distance myself from him. and hopefully find someone better.
2007-04-10 21:01:13 · answer #10 · answered by moniet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋