Hello everyone! I've been with my girl friend for 2 years now and we plan to get married at the end of 2007. I have no doubt I love her, but i wonder if I'm mature enough for marriage. Can any one help me out here?
2007-04-10 18:43:33 · 15 answers · asked by theshyalchemist 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The fact that you have considered this means you are mature enough. Good luck, you will be great together.
2007-04-10 18:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Have you guys been to pre-marital counseling? Have you sorted out your finances? Do you know if you want the same things in life? Cat? Dog? Kids? Careers? etc.? There was a great article in nytimes.com a couple of months ago about all the questions a couple should ask themselves before getting married. The name of the article was sthg like: "Questions couples should ask before getting married". Good Luck!
2007-04-11 01:51:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no way to know youre ready. you can get advice from tons of people but you'll never know until you go through with it. experience is the best teacher. and what the heck, if it doesnt work out you can get divorced. thats what everyone else does. the divorce rate is so high that 1 more divorced couple wont affect the statistics that much anyway.
2007-04-11 01:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jacob F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my man are planning on getting married soon too. Congrats to you and your girl!..........Only you can be certain if you are ready to get married or not. Everyone is different and only you know if its something you really want to happen right now and are ready for. If you feel you want to wait then you really need to talk to your girl about it now. It's okay to be nervous about it that's normal. Good luck!
2007-04-11 01:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by larrys_babygurl_4life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to that first dude. its been proven that living together before marriage actually breaks couples apart and marriage is alot less likely to happen when couples live together for too long before marrying. The only way to be sure is to be together for a while and make sure you're ready to spend the rest of your life with them and you gotta keep thinking to yourself divorce is not even a possibility because you gotta love them that much.
2007-04-11 01:47:24 · answer #5 · answered by Zero 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yeh go to a strip club... if you leave byyoself or without touchn or givn out yo cell or leavn tips in der g-string or gettn sum booty then yeh u ready,oh yeh most important,when u have sex with yo lady and u dont think bout no,i mean none else,even the strippers,then yeh u ready,if u do any of the above thewn dont get married!!!!
2007-04-11 01:50:57 · answer #6 · answered by sha g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people are not mature even on their death beds!
Grow up together and be best friends and lovers. Help each other grow as people in terms of maturity, interests, careers, and life.
2007-04-11 01:48:03 · answer #7 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to tell for sure, and time is not of much use. My wife of eight years and I had been together for two days when we decided the thing would probably work.
2007-04-11 01:48:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a series of compromises once the physical attraction dwindles ... maturity is determined by how capable you are to negotiate and compromise
2007-04-11 01:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by jbreach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen dont worry, marriage is just a paper nothing will change, well some lil things. but u have nothing to worry about, if u really love her whats more important than that, im sure she love u too.
Just dont stress about it, im sure ill know if ur ready or not...good luck
2007-04-11 01:49:37 · answer #10 · answered by baby_ml 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋