Sex with an overweight person?

Question

Is it any less enjoyable / hard?

I'm interested in this guy who's sort of heavy. I'm not thin myself, but most of my weight is distributed to different parts. He seems to carry most of his in his belly area.

Another thing; my friends seem to tear him down when I'm around them. Am I the only one who things big is beautiful (be it guy or girl)?

Answer 1

My hubby gained alot weight after we got married, (We didn't know he was sick, and has since lost the extra) Sex was just as good when he was big as it is when he is thin. Love is what makes it special, not a "perfect 10" body.

Answer 2

Size doesn't matter to some, and does matter to others. People who are obsessed with outward appearance generally stay away from people who are on the heavy side. If you like him, go for it, no matter what his size, just be safe about it.

One note about sex with larger people. Some guys who are larger have smaller members because it gets buried by their belly fat, especially if they carry their weight in their belly, so don't be expecting something huge. This is not the case with all guys who are heavy, but it definately is the case with some who are heavy. Also some people who are heavy, both guys and girls can't go as long in the bedroom without getting short of breath. Then again, some heavy people are real maniacs in the bedroom, so it really comes down to the individual.

Answer 3

Toniann is freaking fool! besides, do not imagine you're a foul man or woman. i'm no longer in contact in those who're over weight because nicely that's gross. that's like no longer being in contact in Asian females or those with blonde hair or some thing. that's thoroughly frequent. It would not make you shallow, i imagine that's good to have criteria. Your pal only extremely needs to set you 2 up, perhaps attempt to make you sense responsible. yet only say you've criteria and also you imagine you deserve more suitable powerful. do not settle for lower than what you'll get.

Answer 4

The more the cushion the better the pushin'!!Well that's what I have heard?!I don't know why it would be hard to do it,it may get uncomfortable after a while if your on bottom,but riding pony could work just hold his belly up to keep it out of the way and to support yourself!!

Answer 5

Big IS beautiful.

Some people are scared that they will be smashed. This is not true. The weight is distributed equally and you can hardly feel the weight.

My husband and I started our marriage smaller in size. Now each of us has gained a lot of weight. We can not feel a difference in the bedroom, and still have the same fun.

Answer 6

It's not any different. You can try other positions if it's uncomfortable for either of you. But I don't think you will find it to be a problem. Millions of big people have sex all the time, so you know it must not be that hard.
And yes, it's enjoyable!!

Answer 7

I usually dig the thin chicks—rail thin, even—but I had a pretty heavy girlfriend once. She was HOT in the sack, too... so no, whatever gets you going.

Can't say I like the look, but It definitely doesn't interfere with the bedtime activites...

Answer 8

Not sure but a friend of mine seems to think they're the best. I say ignore your friends. Life is too short and love it too important to care what others think about the object of your affection.

Answer 9

I don't imagine it to be any different. My bf gained 20 pounds over the last year, and the sex has not changed - his belly isn't in the way!

Answer 10

Don't let your friends decide this for you...
Where there is a will -- there is a way...
I love short fat men with beards and I am NOT complaining...sex isn't the only virtue they have! Maybe you will be the reason? excuse he needs to shed a few or get in better shape...but, please go with your own feelings and heart!