2007-04-10 16:50:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I might want one but then again, I may not.
2007-04-10 16:50:59 · update #1
There are guys out there who get a vasectomy around 21 or so because they don't want to deal with pregnancy scares/actual kids. I dated one several years ago. I'm not extremely interested in biological kids, but I do want children. Fortunately, I married a man who is as interested in adoption as I am.
2007-04-10 16:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are men who don't want children at all or may have already decided that the children he had before you came along were enough for him. It's possible to find one but are you sure that you wont change your mind later on and want a child? Some people will tell you that only the older men will be the ones that don't want children at all but there are alot of young men who have made up their minds completely on it. For example, one of my husband's friends decided that he wasn't the type of person that would make a good father and that he didn't want to even try and find out, so he had a vasectomy done and he's not even 25 yet.
2007-04-10 23:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think that would be fairly easy. Certainly it would be easier to find a man that doesn't want kids than does. Many times men are divorced and already have kids from the first marriage. They are paying child support and have no desire to have more kids with the second wife. Sadly, most women don't realize this until they are married. They didn't realize they would be caring for his first family at the expense of having no children of their own.
2007-04-10 23:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are actually alot of guys that do not want kids this day and age and just want a loving relationship with a nice lady. Actually I'm one myself but I'm happily married sorry
almost 8yrs now neither one of us wanted kids I got snipped!
Good luck in your search maybe when you date and you find someone you really like ask thm if they want kids if they no then well there you go. If he says yes well then keep searching. But really maybe make it something like a secoond date discussion. Tell the guy that you are not really wanting kids it is something that just doesn't interest you.
2007-04-10 23:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are men out there that have been previously married and have kids and they dont want anymore.
I have been married once before and i have four children with my ex-husband. My husband now has three children from his previous marriage. Right now we dont know if we will one day have a child together but i dont think so. If he wants one then we probably will.
2007-04-11 01:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure that's definitely possible. There are tons of guys who don't want children, or more children if they already have some. You just need to ask, but be careful if you might possibly want children, cause some might definitely not want children.
2007-04-10 23:56:38 · answer #6 · answered by GoliathSLW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are guys out there that fall under that category.
Since you are open or undecided about having kids, maybe find one that is willing to have one even if they already have kids.
I'm just not willing to have kids and prefer a guy without them as well. And those guys too are out there.
2007-04-10 23:56:51 · answer #7 · answered by Ella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is possible. I too thought maybe, but now I am not so sure I want anymore children. Just be up front with that special person because if they want children for sure, then they should be with someone who can give them that.
2007-04-10 23:54:32 · answer #8 · answered by Shanna h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don' t want to find a husband. I prefer single men.
2007-04-11 03:23:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an older man. They usually have all the kids they want.
2007-04-14 21:23:25 · answer #10 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋