Alright well ive already asked this question once but ima post it again with more detail this time..okay I had this guy tell me he loved me but hes dating another girl..i asked him if he loved me then why was he with this other girl and all he said was idk my love life is just so ****** up right now and i dont understand..but i do know you are my true love and that i will always love you..well alright so everytime hes around me (his gf is VERY jealous and doesnt like him talkin to anyone) he always says HEY GIRLFRIEND and i know hes doin it to make me jealous..And i asked him if i should wait on him or find someone else and he told me he didnt know what to do..that on my birthday in June..he would hook up with me..and i said well wat if you still have a gf and he goes idc i still will cause i love you....okay when i posted this question the first time i had alot of ppl saying stuff about him tryin to get in my pants or the other girl in bed or something..but im not like THATS WRONG!
2007-04-10 16:47:15 · 8 answers · asked by Jessica W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The problem is that he says he love'd you.... after what history? You need to add that little detail in there. Also that is some very, very, cruel stuff to do to your gf. Talk to someone else about how much you love them. Thats mucho bad, bs. And you think he'll treat you different? Also it shows a complete lack of empathy for his current gf and also a cold lack of empathy for you. Why you don't notice it most mean your use to it, but lets just say most people don't let themselves get strung along like that. Why your welling to let him just because he said he love'd you is beyond me, so hopfully theres more history there, or you'll develop more sense about what it means to have a person say one thing, but obvoiously means something else by his actions. I've love'd a few people in my life, the day I told you that, would of been after I broke up with my last gf. Why he doesn't feel it needs to be that way.... GAME! Sorry to say it like that but the situation doesn't add up.
2007-04-12 04:38:37 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this is a difficult situation at all. He obviously knows he has you on a string or else he wouldn't seem so indecisive. Leave him be. If he truely loved you and NEEDED you and respected you he wouldn't be grimy like that. Let him be with his girlifriend and move on. You have no idea how many guys are out there that can treat you better and make you FORGET that guy. Don't create drama and the stress is not worth it, move on.
2007-04-18 16:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by Raspberry Vodka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not u being like dat is him being like dat and what those people told u was the true !! he just wants to have sex w/u and then dump u!!! who in da world dat haves a gf tells another girl dat he loves her !!!! ask men !!! they know !! honey give ur self a place and respect ur self
!! dont lie to ur self he doesnt love
11 i will recommend u to find some one else !!! hes just playing w/u !!! plz don't believe him !!!!! good luck hope u take the right choice (the smart one)
2007-04-17 16:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by sweet-candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please tell me that he is not the only guy in your town, school, neighborhood????? Stop being an idiot and get on with your life. People that love you don't commit to someone else, they commit to you. This is not about his girlfriend it is about him, and it is about you. Leave him alone, he has a girlfriend! She's the one who ought to be mad. At least if she knows about it. He is a mind F*&*er! That is what he does. He's messed up in the head and enjoys messing you up, and you are allowing it. So stop it and get on with your life and find someone who cares about you, not someone who uses you for their own egotistical gratification.
2007-04-18 08:13:20 · answer #4 · answered by Penny K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys are so confusing at times, i don't think that he wants to get into your pants, or hers.
i just think that he likes the attention of having two girls at once and he likes the fact that he knows you get jealous, trust me. i'm a jealous girl to.. and i hate it with a PASSION!. i think that you should really ask him what he wants,and if he has a girlfriend. then it's his loss.. don't let him lead you on like a dog.. boys tend to do that. and it's LAME!!
love, me:)
2007-04-16 19:19:57 · answer #5 · answered by ;asjhdf. =] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
collectively as eating a 2 dozen field of jelly donuts, ask your self's puppy chinchilla, Snooky, accidentally set the hearth alarm off. ask your self replaced into compelled to desert the donuts. Do you think of Snooky is eating them top now?
2016-10-28 09:54:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes pullin your chain trying to be mean for sure but you are taking it apparently he knew you like him and therefore hes just pulling your chain and being ugly and there is one way to stop it ignore him and find a new person to be with .
2007-04-17 12:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes stupid and hes just stringing you along.my Lord are you really that naive and stupid?♥ he dont love you...he just thinks your hot.
2007-04-18 05:19:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋