if a female has fantasized about being intimate with another female at some point in time, does that mean she is a lesbian??
2007-04-10 15:51:12 · 12 answers · asked by tigerlily 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There is a difference between fantasizing and having dreams, keep that in mind. Dreams are wierd. If it was a dream, it probably meant nothing or that you are in doubt of your own sexuality. If it was a conscious fantasy, there is the possibility of a slip of the mind. Also, females having fantasies about females does not make them lesbians, they could very well be bisexual or even heterosexual and just curious. Imagination is a wonderful source of amusement and also fright. A lesbian is a woman who has sexual relations solely with other women and who does not even consdier males to be possibilities for anything like that. Bisexuals freely "go both ways" and can be male or female. Homosexuals may have been in question about their sexuality at one point or another and have finally accepted themselves. Actually, that also goes for bi's and heterosexuals. Almost everyone calls their own sexuality into question at least once.
2007-04-10 15:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by firestar217 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. if you don't define yourself as a lesbian, that's fine. most people occasionally fantasize about something they don't "really want" or ever plan to do in real life, and that includes making out with someone of the sex they don't normally prefer.
2007-04-10 15:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a lesbian, and it is just a title that women use to describe their wanting to be with just women. At this point I would say that you are curious!
2007-04-10 16:01:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jenna J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A female who is exclusively sexually attracted to females is a lesbian.
2007-04-10 15:53:48 · answer #4 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG I talked to my lesbian pal Jackie approximately this as a results of fact i replace into questioning approximately it too. that's what she advised me. as a results of fact she doesnt have a penis she suggested that when shes thoroughly bare together with her GF and that they are doing despite that's they are doing, thats what she considers intercourse and not purely messing around. thats whilst she felt she lost her virginity.
2016-10-21 14:21:07 · answer #5 · answered by arleta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a female is attracted only to women, and not to men, then she is a lesbian.
2007-04-10 16:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. If that thought was perhaps... unwanted, or for some reason sudden.... I think it's more of what their heart wants. The person may just be confused...
2007-04-10 15:54:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, just a little bisexual.
Some studies say we all are to some extent.
2007-04-10 15:53:38 · answer #8 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not really you could be bi/you could just want to experiment it deppends on wether or not u actually have feelings for a girl
2007-04-10 15:54:35 · answer #9 · answered by BOBO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be doing it, not fantasizing.
2007-04-10 15:54:01 · answer #10 · answered by The Con 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋