Well heres the info my boyfriend is going to cal poly, and I don't know what to do. Cal poly is exactly 3 hours away. Like right now I already feel like our relationship is going downhill.Everytime I try to talk to him about it he gets upset or he doesn't take the situation seriously. I feel like if he goes something might go wrong like he might cheat on me or he might break up with me....
2007-04-10 15:51:11 · 6 answers · asked by erika c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You both are too young to be worried about a serious relationship. At this stage of the game, the both of you should be focused on college and your future careers.
I know that's hard to let your relationship go, but be realistic. You both need to work on your careers with the possibility of seeing other people.
If you two are really meant to be, you two will eventually get back together in the future.
2007-04-12 05:15:20 · answer #1 · answered by Dave C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ERica, it is possible that a little distance might givr you both some perspective on the situation. Make a list of all the things that you like/love about him and if it is possible tuck some away in his gear so he finds them as he unpacs. They will be a reminder of good times you have had and if he does get the freshmen blues will help with that too. All in all three hours is not so bad. My love and I were a continent apart for almost a year and wrote every few days. I don't mean e-mial either. Those tangeble little pieces of paper you can put a drop of your perfume on, ya know! Good luck!
2007-04-10 23:15:54 · answer #2 · answered by Durchai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want this to work then you need to stop the whinning. i mean give him a break , it is hard on him too!! when he leaves it will be hard but you have to trust him. why cant you go with him? i mean you can find a job over there and be with him. make it work if you really want it to work!! sometimes long distance relationships wont work be ready for that too. think about it , a guy going to college. parties, girls, alcohol!! it might happen. i say you think about it really hard , if he doesnt want to talk about it maybe he isnt ready for it either and wants out., good luck.
2007-04-10 23:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of pamona is a pain in the butt to drive to with the insane traffic on the 57. So i say dump him. Unless you are going to marry the guy move on. You will meet better guys in college anyways. Guys who will be around.
2007-04-10 22:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by OCgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax you bothhave a lot of growing to do still. Let him go and be happy he got into such an awesome school
2007-04-11 01:24:32 · answer #5 · answered by space case 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for gads sakes break up and let you both get going abit if its real it won't be gone but you have to learn to go with the lfow and find someone that cares and you care it has to go both ways.
2007-04-14 21:25:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋