I've been talking to my ex-girlfriend online for months. The affection I have for her never left. I'm dating someone else now and she is extremely jealous. I don't know what (or if) to tell her. These email could turn out to be nothing.
2007-04-10 15:48:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
If you're even thinking of cheating, then you're cheating -- whether it be in thought or email. Keep in mind that your correspondence with your ex-girlfriend may hurt your current. Don't jump defensive, though, if your current suspects that you're cheating -- just own up. No matter how hurtful it is, truth is always best. It keeps your integrity intact. You can't help what you feel -- just don't lie about it. It'll hurt your current like hell. Still, truth is always best.
2007-04-10 16:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by lilcurious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.....you still have feelings for your ex and you have been conversing with her for months... I would say that you are emotionally cheating which could be worse than physically cheating, especially according to your new girlfriend.
Would you have the same conversations with your ex over the phone with your current girl friend listening to every word- both sides of the conversation? If the answer is no, then I think that should be a huge indicator as to whether or not you are cheating.
Good luck, choose wisely!
2007-04-10 15:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by C K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It becomes cheating when it consumes you and you no longer can be honest about the conversations with your new girlfriend. Tell your girlfriend that you have a wonderful friendship with your ex that you don't want to lose, that it's great having her now as a friend when as a gf wasn't such a great idea (thus the breakup) and that you are dating her now. I'm sure she has guy friends she talks too. I highly doubt the minute you came into her life she deleted every email addy and phone number for every guy she knows just to be with you. She can't have it both ways. Just make up your mind which girl is the girlfriend, be honest with yourself and you can be honest with these girls.
2007-04-10 15:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by dittersdoodles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just asked my girlfriend and she told me it becomes cheating when you start to say things that you would not tell your ex-girlfriend in front of your new girlfriend... good rule of thumb dont try to be friends with your ex if your new girl is the jealous type it will cause problems in the long run pluss there is a reason your with the new girl not the old one any way.
2007-04-10 15:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you are just stringing your present girlfriend along.its cheating when you are discussing anything at all that you would not feel comforatable discussing with your girl friend present.if you have and you have shared feelings of love with your ex its not over.be a man and choose i hope you make the right choice and good luck.
2007-04-10 15:58:37 · answer #5 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to make up your mind which girl you truely want..if you never gave up the feelings for your ex, then you should be with her..dont make your current gf suffer..your just pushing her away if you continue like this..if you two are happy, then you will have to give up talking to your ex..but this choice has to come from your heart..sorry if this didnt help..
2007-04-10 15:55:54 · answer #6 · answered by Nikkib 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask and are still having the conversations after asking, it's cheating
2007-04-10 15:56:49 · answer #7 · answered by cam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋