Explain.
2007-04-10 14:44:47 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Sure is Sharon. At the end of the day, love is all about 'work'. To suggest that we could meet the perfect, ready to go partner with identical needs and aspirations, or similar quirks and/or problems is ludicrous right? Therein begins said 'work'....In my mind, over and above the necessary animal attraction the journey can only begin when one(ultimately both) makes the deep and conscious decision they want it. (Brings to mind quips like - "When there's a will, there's a way..." and "Love conquers all...") As with anything in life we want, to get it, you have to see it, believe in it and that you 'can' get it, work towards it, be it, have it and nurture it.
2007-04-10 15:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by Talented Samo' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People fall in love all of the time. It's just human nature. Some people don't even know what a "soul mate" is. If you are a female, your best "soul mate" is someone at least 8 years old than you are, has a good job, a vehicle and a house. If you are a male, your best "soulmate" is a woman with a good job, a house and her age does not matter.
2007-04-10 14:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by rare2findd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend for a moment that there are an infinite number of soul mates for us out there. Pretend that our souls, hearts, and minds recognize aspects in other people that we have in ourselves. Pretend that no *perfect* soul exists... just a series of connective tissue, some connections strong than others. If you can invest any belief into those things stated above, you may begin to realize that there is no *one* soul-mate... but simply stronger, more intense connections based on the willingness of those involved to invest of themselves.
This is what I believe. I believe we all have more than one... and we learn from each and every that we encounter. I believe that my friends are my soul mates... after all... haven't we chosen each other?
So... no... I do not think it is possible to love someone whom your soul does not recognize.
2007-04-10 15:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by Mikisew 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my hubby was definitely not my soul mate (he was my rebound relationship). I fell in love with how charming he was and funny and smart (and a smart ***), basically, over time, I kinda 'learned' to love him (as weird as that sounds), but you are with someone for so long and you get used to being with that person and you don`t know what it`s like not to be, does that make any sense? And you DO love that person, but just aren`t IN LOVE. Things went downhill because after almost 7 years I realized that we are nothing alike and have nothing in common. Then I met Doug (my boyfriend for 5 years, have two kids together). When I saw him, I knew he was my Soul mate. The man I was supposed to be with, and I still feel that way.
2007-04-10 14:51:04 · answer #4 · answered by Roxie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
human beings fall in love all of the time. that's basically human nature. some human beings do no longer even understand what a "soul mate" is. once you're a woman, your perfect "soul mate" is somebody a minimum of 8 years previous than you're, has an excellent job, a vehicle and a house. once you're a male, your perfect "soulmate" is a woman with an excellent job, a house and her age does not count.
2016-10-21 14:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is. Just because someone is not your soul mate doesn't mean you can't find things to love about another.
2007-04-10 23:22:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be possible depending upon how easily you fall for someone. If you are the cautious type your heart won't completely open up. If you are eager to please then yes, you will most likely fall many times before you find your "soul" mate. I however, just lust for all the wrong men.....*sigh*
2007-04-10 14:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As much as we want to say NO, we could be mistaken and fooled. This, I think, is what makes us focus our anger on them instead of ourselves. We don't like to believe we played a willing part in duping ourselves.
But, if we were perfect, we'd be beating potential mates off with a stick. I guess the purpose of dating is to show our faults to someone else and find out if they can live with these faults. Whoa/woe be it on us, if we find someone who "wants" to change us.
2007-04-10 18:18:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I was in love and he wasn't my soul mate.
2007-04-10 14:49:23 · answer #9 · answered by atcblue05 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it's possible....but then the real soul mate shows up and all hell breaks loose...
2007-04-10 14:49:42 · answer #10 · answered by Mikey ~ The Defender of Myrth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋