We broke up several times, didn't speak for months, also tried getting it to werk severl times. Now I know for SURE we're not compatible, except the for the sex part. I just didn't click with anyone esle afer the breakups, and I still don't have the desire to get seriously involded with someone esle. It was my initiative to invite him over for sex. Am I hurting myself, trying not to forget him? I suspect that I'm doing this to create an illusion because I don't have the desire to stay just friends with him nor do I want to work on a relationship.
Anyone with similar experiences?
2007-04-10 14:27:51 · 6 answers · asked by Marinka 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We all have made mistakes,but you are degrading yourself by allowing this to happen. Try to find friends and go on with your life. You need to give yourself time before getting into another relationship. It seems that you know this won't work with him, so be fair to yourself and have no contact.
2007-04-18 05:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never use anyone for sex, especially after breaking up. You sound like you can't make a decision about a man. It is time to clear the air with him, stop using him and move on. It is only fair that he should be able to move on to someone more appreciative and suitable. It doesn't whose fault it was, his or yours or what happened. It is time to let him go, so that he can move on with his life. Wouldn't you want to be treated that way, with respect and honesty?
2007-04-10 14:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have been in your situation. If the sex is good, then just go for it but leave the emotional attachment behind. I have been in this type of relationship for about nine yrs now with another guy. He is strictly for pleasure and vice versa!!
2007-04-10 15:51:52 · answer #3 · answered by Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are in fact if you get pg then what will you do marry him: yep, that is what will happen and that is not right that is why you are too young. can you support yourself and make a life by yourself? nope you can't its always rely on someone else and this day and times you dont' have to but you also have to use some sort of judgement. also he could give you SIDS and then what? i mean its some of it is bad.
2007-04-14 14:20:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just like the sex. Or maybe you do want to be with him. I have had the same thing happen to me. It was just about the sex b/c she liked what I did and I was really good.
2007-04-10 14:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by Chris F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get back with him. Its might be hard for y'all but it sounds like he is the only guy that can **** yo the why you like. So, try to be together and if it doest work this time don't try it again.
2007-04-17 06:20:34 · answer #6 · answered by HANNAH K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋