I am 16 and my sister is 8. She is annoying me SO much lately. It has not gotten me that angry until recently though. Well all the time me and my family will go somewhere I will order a meal and she will say Oh I will have that too or she wants... everything I get she has the same. My mom is like she loves you blah blah blah. Also she has to go everywhere I go. For instance I will go to visit the dog next door because I don't have a dog because she is allergic and this dog is like my dog. Recently she has been like mom can I go with her ... can I go with her can I go with her. She also wants to go everywhere my friends and I go which really gets on my nerves. My mom says sure dear. I just want to do my own thing and I do not want her always tagging along with me! Imitation is the highest form of flattery..... more like the highest form of annoyance! Also I will ask her to stop doing annoying this and either she does not stop, she yells noooo, or she just says you not the boss of me.
2007-04-10 14:18:48 · 13 answers · asked by Lindsey G 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
she says wahh your not the boss of me. My mom says I will tell her what to do but she just lets her keep doing it even though it is annoying. My mom wonders why after 15 times of asking my sister to stop doing something I yell at her. It is just so annoying. I like to be with her whan I feel like it but now she is just annoying because she does everything I does and she has to go everywhere I go. HELP!!
2007-04-10 14:19:30 · update #1
honey she is being a typical 8 year old you were probably the same way but don't realize it just ignore her when she is being annoying and pay attention to her when she does something good and has given you some space
2007-04-10 14:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds a bit spoiled, and probably is. But still it's a big deal for her hang with you.
Take a bit of time for her. Seriously. Invite her to visit the dog or whatever,maybe take her for the first half of a trip with friends.
What this will do, is you can establish a pattern of there're times when she can go, and times when she can't. She's old enough to understand that sometimes it's not her turn. You can't do that unless there're times when it is her turn.
Sometime when it's not her turn and she pitches a fit, don't go at all. I know it's not fair, but she'll see that being bratty won't get her anywhere. It sounds like your Mom is building a monster for herself there.
You need to talk to your Mom about this at a moment when both of you aren't whining at her.
2007-04-10 21:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She will always annoy you---you just need to learn how to deal with her. In a few years it will be over when you go away to college or get a job!!Just be happy you have a sister. You could be an only child that would be boring!! Plus if anything ever happened to your little sister you will regret being mean to her!!!
2007-04-10 21:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure it seems aggravating to you, but it's really kind of cute. sit down with your sister and set aside a special time during the week that is just for the 2 of you. then tell her that sometimes you need to be alone and that would be a good time for her to hang out with her own friends. if she knows she's going to have some time with you each week, maybe she'll back off a little.
2007-04-10 21:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by Meg 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one day you will realize how important having a close relationship with your sister is. You are her role model, you should feel happy and so special that she looks up to you and loves you so much. Hold on to your sister, she is one of the closest relationships you will ever have in your life.
2007-04-10 21:23:08 · answer #5 · answered by imissrascal 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i think its time to slap a hoe..haha just kidding.
u know they say imitation is the highest form of flattery. she loves you i know siblings can be annoyinf but your her hero...and she looks u ti u. she doesnt understand everythin cause of her age...so give her a break.
2007-04-10 21:22:49 · answer #6 · answered by *BoNitA ChIcA* 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
try talking to your mom and tell her how you feel. about it. and when you order wait until she orders and then you do it. but defiantly talk to your mom, and tell her that you love your sister but you need time to yourself without her there by your side all the time. good luck.
2007-04-10 21:25:35 · answer #7 · answered by misty blue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get off the computer and pay some attention to her. She is obviously craving it.
2007-04-10 21:23:17 · answer #8 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's very normal for sisters to do that.
2007-04-10 21:22:54 · answer #9 · answered by atcblue05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weren't you that person who had that violent husband? I think your lying 100%.
2007-04-10 21:22:33 · answer #10 · answered by Kimberly day 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋