Why do men chose not to work and expect the wife to support the family?

Answer 1

If they are sitting at home playing video games all day, it's because they are lazy losers. If they are home taking care of the kids and the house, then they do have a job.

Answer 2

there is not any longer some thing incorrect with being a stay at residing house mom yet maximum persons won't be able to have the funds for to have a one earnings kinfolk now a a days. Its no longer custom any extra for a lady to stay residing house because women persons fought for his or her rights to freedom. If we want a job we may be able to get one, we haven't got any guy telling us what to do any extra like they used to. In some countries the ladies persons haven't got any rights in any respect even contained in the alternative of who they marry. that's gloomy.

Answer 3

Men haven't gotten lazy this day in age. And women have always been strong and they are stronger this day in age and taking on the responsibility of the men plus women. Women are forced to and it is partly our fault for being to soft on the men. The "stupid" women ruin our men. Being "sugar mama's" and trying to buy a man's love. But if a woman wants to be the provider then more power to her. But if not then don't tolerate it.

Answer 4

can't say that I've met men that think that way. I did met one that was a stay at home dad. His wife had a great job and his was okay. They wanted one of them to stay home with the kids and they decided he would because what her job could offer the family financially. He does everything that you think of a mom and wife doing.

Answer 5

Most men don't.

Is he a stay at home dad? Does he do all the things a stay at home wife would do? Those are jobs, they just aren't paying jobs.

If he is just staying home being lazy and doing absolutely nothing, he is not a man, he is an overgrown child.

Answer 6

Wait, hear me out, since womens rights, you want to be paid equal pay for equal jobs and you got it, you wanted to participate in mens politics and play with laws and we let you, (to balance the scales you made laws that made the man responsible for you fooling around whether it was his fault or not so that all men pay child support regardless of circumstances) , you passed laws to take away our guns but at the same time add a concealed weapons license to your possession of firearms, you even wanted to participate in the most dangerous of industries and professions and we allowed that also and look at how many of you women participated but still you gained the right. With all of the things you gained with womens rights you still expect men to maintain manners, paying for the date, chivalry and protectiveness, romancing you to heaven and planning a life together, extending the request of marriage, and taking more than 50% in the inevitability that you leave and most do, you do a crappy job at running and raising a stable family unit that is the backbone of our country and then you blame you lack of ability on men with all the adversity and detriment that comes just from giving you your rights and you have the nerve to want us to work also. If you had stayed at home instead of wanting to be like a man we would be working and doing well with your help in raising the family and promoting the family unit but you massive failure to be men has led to us just not caring any more. YOU wanted to be the man, fine, YOU wanted to be in charge, fine, YOU wanted to be in control because you thought you could do it better, fine, Well that is what you got because all women did was to use their freedoms to persecute men and they expected me to what, maybe just become yes men and work for the women and take their disrespectful degrading style and be humble. You misused your rights and used them as weapons on the American male to get even and now you are. Where you used to stay home as a partner and keep the balance of life, you now are in control and do not know what to do with it. What you took from men wasn't yours to take, what benefits came from it was given as a gift and with an open heart and now you expect it the same way. When you fight for your rights to be men you should have read the print, once you reach equality there has to be a balance and since you are in control now, I have to help balance it as there was an opening. Now your not happy because I had to fill a spot to maintain balance. Where does it end? We will not be slaves to women let them be in control and carry the burden also. Just ain't gonna happen. You got what you asked for in your marches and petitions and trek for equality and now all you can do is ***** about it and you got everything you want. What was the idea of a few based on a minority sounded good and all girls joined in a fight, not for rights but against men and you won. Taste the victory. You had it pretty much made now you make it.

Answer 7

That's called a deadbeat, I've been out of work for 16hrs. Thank God, that's the longest I've ever been without work. I sure hope you're not involved with a man like that. If so get out now!!!!! Good Luck

Answer 8

They really shouldn't unless they are really doing the job of a stay at home dad. My husband has lost jobs a few times and has diligently looked for another one while unemployed.

Answer 9

Cuz they are SLIME!!! Just divorced that one myself! It would have been a different story if he was taking care of the kids and the house. However, he felt that was also my job! Hang in there honey! They aren't all like that!

Answer 10

It all depends on what arrangement the two of you came to before you got married, on what would happen in the marriage.