one of my freinds she's 13 and she pregnate! ( i know) Her dads a pastor ( she should know better) and she's do this month. she's really scared. how do i support her without...you know.... as a friend...not like....
2007-04-10 13:05:31 · 9 answers · asked by ~~SASSY~~ 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
A girl is who is preg. and only 13, has been raped, I don't care if she consented or not. Whomever got her pregnant should be prosecuted. What kind of parents (regardless her father being a pastor) does she have, they don't where or who their child is associating with? This is such a sad situation, safe sex, birth control is so available today. Parents do their children (both boys and girls) a horrible disservice by putting their head in the sand, not making sure there is a clear dialog with their children about all aspects of sex and the consequences. Your friend needs a friend more than ever, hopefully she has learned a valuable lesson, sex is not love, only sex.
2007-04-10 13:28:19 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an interesting subject. At least she is able to talk to you, but at some point the parents will have to know. Having a baby is at least a 24 hour stay in the hospital. I can understand being scared to tell your parents, I went through that also but I was 22 years old. I guess the most important thing is for her to seriously think about options and what she wants to do in terms of keeping the baby and adoption. But, sadly young scared mothers who hide the whole pregnancy sometimes do stupid things as a last resort. Please make sure she talks to someone if she feels she can't talk to her parents. You haven't spoken about medical either, so this would be for her safety and the baby's.
2007-04-10 20:32:36 · answer #2 · answered by michelle_emu4eva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shee is scared about labor, it really dose not matter how old you are. She needs as much as support as possible, but do not take over the job, She will lose that attachment, responsibility to her baby, And to remind her that she needs to take care of herself more than any other woman over the age of 18. Having a baby young can mess up her development as a woman. maybe not right after but later in her 20s'. I had my first at 15, and I now feel it everyday
2007-04-10 20:17:20 · answer #3 · answered by MomofAnns 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the only thing i can say is enjoy your life because she has cut her life short trying to be grown just learn from her mistakes and dont go down the road that she did.
2007-04-10 20:15:45 · answer #4 · answered by purpmanspurpman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are her parents there for her? you can help her best by staying her friend and being there for her to talk to, she will need a good freind to get through this rough time, good luck to her
2007-04-10 20:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by armywife1083 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will need your support but Let her know if she is interested in adoption to email me I am looking to adopt again.
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2007-04-10 22:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by vrs31proverbs31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's due this month? and now she's scared? she needs to look into adoption ASAP, and try to get her education, which won't be easy if she is a 13 yr old mother. i hope she learned her lesson.
2007-04-10 20:14:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just point and laugh well you are hanging out with your friends and she is at home with a baby attached to your boob, because you are smarter then her
2007-04-10 20:09:42 · answer #8 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 5⤋
lol! Rainey is right...
2007-04-10 20:14:34 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋