see im in a relationship now but my ex boyfriend want me back and i want him too but i feel bad to leave the one im with but we also have a big problem with trust i care about him what should i do ?
2007-04-10 12:11:15 · 7 answers · asked by jaze w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your question what should I do? I would tell you to follow your heart, but that would make me a lire. Am in the same saturation your in. Am in a relationship that's good to me. But my heart belongs to the man I love and was with him for 10yrs. This new man am with only 6months. That should be easy for me to do since I have 10yrs and a child with this man.He wants to come back too. But we have a big problem too. Trust issue. I can't trust him, no more. I would give up everything at a drop of the hat if I could trust him one more time. But I can't. And the guy am with now, I love him but not like that. And this guy am with now he is good for me and I can trust him all the way. But my heart and love belong to someone else. I know it's selfish of me to stay with the other guy, but he loves me so. I would hurt him badly if I just left to go to the other guy of 10yrs. And that's his biggest fear.I know how you feel too. I wish I had a answer.Right now I don't know what to do. I think of it everyday. The guy of 10yrs told me he will wait for my answer and I could call him anytime in tell him come home and he will do it.But I know what stops me is the trust issue.
2007-04-10 12:29:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a reason he is called ex remember that! could you have started dating to early after the break up?Maybe relationships aren't for you right now, do you think you will be considered as a Ho if you date without the commitment well you won't because you are being true to yourself and the person you are with you can go back to your ex dear but for what if it is for sex then you need to be single until you get all of these Ho tendensies out of your system there is no reason to rush into a relationship enjoy being single for a while until you can put any past feelings for any man in your past in the past an keep them there for good.then you will be able to truely be solely with one man in mind and in spirit. Good luck !
2007-04-10 12:31:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, you shouldn't start something else before you finish what you have. Treat that "current" man the way you'd want to be treated. Good luck.
2007-04-10 12:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by kozzzmic_kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what your heart says to do. Things can work out. Sometimes you have to not care what other people want but what you want.
Good Luck!
2007-04-10 12:15:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your bf.
explain him the situation.
and he will understand.
just dont go and keep it behind ur back.
tel himthe truth.
good luck!
2007-04-10 12:18:00 · answer #5 · answered by love<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with your BF... have fun with the ex... i KNOW it will be a HUGE mistake, but you dont know yet
you will
2007-04-10 12:14:32 · answer #6 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it burn
2007-04-10 12:19:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋