I have a guy for a roommate. Monday I had to work he didn't. I had to run home unexpectedly in the middle of the day. I walked into the living room and caught my roommate naked and pleasuring himself just as he was "finishing". I froze for a few moments out of shock and stood there wide eyed staring. He knew I walked in. the door is only a couple feet away from him. So i was right in from of him about 4 feet away.He was past the point of no return and I witnessed his squrting orgasm.
Is this how you would react? If not how would you react?
I couldn't help staring, is this normal?
yes he knew I walked in. the door is only a couple feet away from him. So i was right in from of him about 4 feet away.
2007-04-10 11:40:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wow! Ive walked in on a countless number of guys. Including my best guy friends and ones i consider brothers. Its creepy at first but you must try and block it out of your mind! As for him, dont worry about it. As sick as it sounds that probaly helped him! He may feel a little akward in front of you for a few days but only because hes afraid of what you might be thinking. If thats the case try and it up very casually and just let him know your sorry about walking in and invading his privacy. If thats difficult make into a joke like "You should really start locking that door, bud haha!" It will make the situation a lot less messy. Good luck!
2007-04-10 11:46:49 · answer #1 · answered by katesmit216 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL!!!
Give him a hand!!!
I'm sorry. I couldn't help myself...
I walked in on a gay roommate doing the same thing once.. Ewww.
Ok. Next time you are comming home unexpected, give a ring?
Probably nothing needs to be discussed.
If he's a nice guy, he's embarrassed as hell. He may want to apologize, or he may want to pretend like nothing happened.
If he's not a nice guy, well. I don't know.
And, what's normal? Not like you come home every day to find a guy jerking off on the couch... No, you were shocked and not like you stood there for 4 minutes...
BTW, what was he watching? Animal encounters? Did you have to duck? LOL. Oh God I'm so bad.
I'm sorry, it's just too funny not to make fun of.
A~
2007-04-10 11:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by BigMac2xk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite awkward. Imagine how ashamed he will feel. Probably worse than you.
Well, I guess it's normal for a single guy to do that once and a while. If he's your roommate, at least he respects you doing it while you're 'gone'.
I suppose he will appologise, but maybe you should do the same thing. After all, you bumped in unexpectedly, however shocking it may have been for you.
Better talk this out, how crazy it may sound. Otherwise, it will 'hang in the air' for a pretty long time.
Anyway, cool down. That's most important.
2007-04-10 11:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by Peter T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my, how awkward. In terms of how I would have reacted - I would have probably laughed my butt off, to be perfectly honest. I think it is pretty normal to stare, maybe even from shock.
Also, I would talk to him - soon. Maybe suggest that some activities are best left for private rooms (bedroom) rather than the common rooms. It is your house, too. What if you had walked in with your grandma or something?
2007-04-10 11:58:19 · answer #4 · answered by kozzzmic_kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once walked in on my teen nephew. Yes, very embarrassing. i turned and vacated the room and I think it took both of us about 3 days to look each other in the eye. After about 3 weeks and we were very comfy with each other again I made a few jokes that put him at ease. There is nothing wrong with what he was doing, just private and not meant to be shared with your auntie.
We never actually talked about it but we did make jokes about masterbation that put both of us at ease with what happened.
2007-04-10 12:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by damommyxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not avoid him. If he brings it up then tell him the truth about what was going through your mind when you saw him but don't bring it up again after the end of that conversation. Your reaction is very normal. I would have been very shocked and embarrassed. I know it is awkward. Good luck.
2007-04-10 11:52:47 · answer #6 · answered by Just Because 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have laughed and acted as if i didnt care. But future notice send him a friend text saying your coming home and to put all weapons away!
2007-04-10 11:44:38 · answer #7 · answered by *siigh* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would have reacted the same way. don't worry about it . don't bring it up to him he's probably embarrassed even though he didn't look it at the time. alot of guys do this all the time. anyway it doesn't make him a pervert in case thats what you were thinking. he's just very HORNY.
2007-04-10 11:47:47 · answer #8 · answered by leapyrangels 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have not said a word, (okay maybe I would have mumbled, 'Gross' or something) and never speak of it as long as you live.
Things will be awkward for awhile, but you will get things back to normal after awhile.
2007-04-10 11:54:11 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Heather♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no clue how i would react to that situation but you could apologize if you feel that necessary and recommend he do that in his room from now on.
2007-04-10 11:44:33 · answer #10 · answered by ~*These Blue Eyes Tell No Lies*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋