I have a guy for a roommate. Monday I had to work he didn't. I had to run home unexpectedly in the middle of the day. I walked into the living room and caught my roommate naked and pleasuring himself just as he was "finishing". I froze for a few moments out of shock and stood there wide eyed staring. He was past the point of no return and I witnessed him orgasm.
Is this how you would react? If not how would you react?
I couldn't help staring, is this normal?
2007-04-10 10:05:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes he knew I walked in. the door was only a couple feet away from him. So i was right in from of him about 4 feet away.
2007-04-10 10:12:08 · update #1
I remember this question from before. I would act like it was no big deal. Believe it or not, men do this all of the time. If he doesn't bring it up, then you don't need to bring it up. If he apologizes etc, just be casual about it..."it's ok, don't worry about it", and be done with it =) If he's really embarrased about it, he may bring it up; but if he's one of those who doesn't care and knows it's natural, you won't hear him say anything.
2007-04-10 10:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's normal to stare but you should have backed back out of the room and gave him a few minutes. It's an embarrassing thing for both of you I'm sure but the best thing to do is go about your business like nothing happened
2007-04-10 10:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg your going to feel so weird around him for a bit! But reaction was soo normal. Just try talking to him and let him no thats a no no for the living room.
2007-04-10 10:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by lovely_ms_t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just act like nothing happened...It's normal for guys to do it. Just don't say anything, and hopefully the "weirdness" will go away soon. I'm sure he is embarassed about the whole thing.
2007-04-10 10:09:34 · answer #4 · answered by missyhardt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats normal trust me it's like you don't know what else to do but stare. But just act like nothing happened. Just wondering did he know you saw him?!?? Well yup thats all i have to say.
2007-04-10 10:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by iluvsuperman84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor guy.... yeah, i might have immediately turned around and gone back out the door, but i might have frozen too. there's nothing to do now... do the guy a favor and never mention it again. i can't imagine how embarrased he is.
2007-04-10 10:10:20 · answer #6 · answered by scruffy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just act like it didn't happen, unless of course he saw you. Then I just would never mention it! It's not like he planned for you to see him.
2007-04-10 10:09:00 · answer #7 · answered by Michele 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um...wow....thats really awkward for you now...yes I would have defiantly reacted this way! but if I were you try to act like it didnt happen..."Least said, soonest mended"
2007-04-10 10:09:50 · answer #8 · answered by uber_kiwi95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would have left immediately, not stayed and watched
2007-04-10 10:08:26 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really can't be mad it's a guy thing and it is normal.....but he should have done it in his room not the couch even though you weren't home.
2007-04-10 10:08:39 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋