My man and I are both fire signs (Aries, me, and Leo, him).?

Question

Although I constantly feed his ego and make sure he always feels like he's the king, he still gets jealous and irritated when things aren't going exactly his way.I'm a fairly calm person but, before I know it the situation can get pretty heated. Does anyone have any ideas on how to cool these situations? I realize that we're probably struggling for first place in this relationship because he's not just jealous of other people, he's jealous of me, too. We argue over the most rediculous things.

Answer 1

I'd need to know a bit more about him and you (as in your rising, moon, and mars)... Leos have a tendency to feel sorry for and doubt themselves, so his need to have things his way probably stems from insecurities, whereas an Aries you tend to just go for things with a lot less self-doubt.

The best solution is probably just calling "Time out!" and spending a little time apart. The good thing about being a Aries (and to a lesser extent, Leo), while your anger can be abrupt, it doesn't become a grudge very often- you're short tempered- short to come and short to go.

If you find out what his Mars sign is, you will be able to find out what outlets are good for his aggression (e.g. Mars in Pisces = Swimming is a good way to ease tension). Feel free to e-mail me with that and I will try to interpret further.

Answer 2

Aries With Leo:10/10
This is a really good astrological match up. You will both have the same energy levels, and stamina plus you will also have the desire to go and do, but the Leo will be more success oriented and driven, most likely will be the dominating force in this relationship. While you like success, when it comes from someone else, it often irritates you, and this is the ONLY drawback that I can see. Learn to take a back seat as far as money is concerned and you will be ok. Aries will be the more dominant in the love department though, and this makes up for a lot! These two will have no problem having fun together and staying together for a long time.

Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 3

Jealousy is not a mature trait for anyone, no matter what sign they are. The fact that you're dealing with two fiery signs only intensifies what is already an undesirable presence. Heated jealousy is not something to nurture or excuse. There are obviously deep-seated issues rooted in people, places and times you probably have no clue about and your Leo mate may or may not have the slightest interest in confronting. It's easier for him to pretend to be offended at your flirtatious indiscretions (real or imagined) than it is for him to take responsibility for his own weaknesses. This can go on and on and on for as long as the two of you want to fuel the fires of romance, passion and sexual activity with a kind of disregard for substance, preferring to dwell in the imaginary form of intimacy that is driven by your disagreements and incompatibility. This is entirely up to you, of course. Personally, I would cut him loose for now. Give him a chance to grow up.

Answer 4

the key to happiness is to give up trying to BOTH be the boss. and NOt know everything....hard to do for both signs....but this is a great combo...you both just have to set and know the boundaries.
a male leo is KING....for sure....jealous?? you bet.....but that is cause he is also very protective of his mate.
picture the king of beasts.....he waits for the female lion to kill the prey, serve him , and then take care of the lil cubs........
while he lies in the sun and looks handsome!!!! same thing in life.....stop feeding into his ego..it is big enough.
they like a challenge...so stimulate is mind as well as in the bedroom.....
YOU, ms. aries.......are a go getter.....but you have to also STOP AND SMELL THE ROSES.....you look too far ahead and not concentrate on TODAY.....good luck..you 2 are a good match with understanding....

Answer 5

LEO MAN

He falls in love readily, then finds it hard to sustain the emotion. for him, falling out of love is as simple as falling out of bed. Don't make the mistake of thinking Leo man is casual about love. he isn't; in fact, he sees love in practically mythical terms. To him, a love affair is never minor or mild or murky. It is high drama; it is a grand passion. No one else in the zodiac can more easily make you believe that you and he are the first, original, quintessential lovers in the world. The woman who wins his favor moves instantly to center stage. The spotlight is on her, she rates in the bright circle of his admiration. It's a heady experience to have a Leo lover. Then suddenly the lights are turned off, the curtain falls, the play is over—and she doesn't know why. And he won't explain. Most likely, it's because Leo was in love with a mythical creature of his imagination—a beautiful adoring princess completely fulfilled by him. When the real woman supersedes the myth, Leo gets on his white horse and rides off.

Leo man likes a woman to cater to his every whim. Yet he would be surprised to hear himself described as demanding. He doesn't see himself that way at all. He thinks he is openhearted, trusting, asking nothing but what he is entitled to. If told that he sometimes asks too much of those close to him, he simply wouldn't understand how. After all, why should anyone refuse him? In pleasing him, they please themselves. A true democrat, he believes everyone is equal—equally ready to serve him. If this sounds like an overweeningly self-assured type riding for a fall, look a bit closer. Underneath Leo's surface majesty is a sensitive, vulnerable man who needs reassurance—and praise. Praise is as necessary to him as food and drink.

In sexual relationships he won't voyage beyond the farthest limits of the known to find a new continent of sensuality. He's a cautious navigator who sticks close to charted waters. On the other hand, a woman will never end up with a sunken wreck. If you rub his mane the right way, Leo the Lion is a marvelously affectionate, cheerful companion. He is kind, strong, generous, something of a spendthrift but usually successful in business. A woman who gets this flamboyant, magnetic overachiever with the sunny disposition has only one problem. Somehow she has to teach him that the sole object of his adulation does not have to be himself.



HOW TO ATTRACT LEO

You can always win over anyone born under this sign if you show by your actions, your attention, and your unceasing compliments that you are completely and hopelessly lost in admiration. If you really feel that way, you're in clover. If you don't, fake it. Leos won't suspect your sincerity because they think they're fully as wonderful as you tell them they are. Leos almost never think compliments go too far. There is another way to make an impression on Leo: be funny. They have a fine sense of humor and love to be entertained. (Didn't every monarch have a court jester?)

You can't go wrong attending a cultural event, especially a preview of some kind. Accompany Leo to a cocktail party that marks the opening of a new art gallery, an advance movie screening, or a lecture by an author about his or her forthcoming book. Pet Peeve for Leo men: Heavy makeup on women. Bear in mind that both male and female Leos think the best is none to good for them. Leo travels first class. If you're trying to impress a Leo woman, take the rubber band off your bankroll, never wince at a restaurant check, get the best orchestra seats, don't overlook the flowers, champagne, and telephone calls.

If you're trying to impress a Leo male, get the best cut of steak from the butcher and don't spare the wine. If he brings a good bottle of wine (and he will), exclaim over the astute choice he made, then exclaim again over the wine's bouquet and taste. And then bring out your final surprise—that flaming dessert or special after-dinner brandy. Keep the ambiance posh.



These two are the superstars of the zodiac. These well-matched partners get along marvelously in the bedroom. They're an unbeatable combination for deriving sheer joy and excitement from sex. they also share the same likes and dislikes in other areas of life. However, they need all that rapport to overcome one big problem—the head-on collision of two super egos, each of whom wants to play the leading role. they have to learn to share center stage. Otherwise, a glorious mating.

Both have got egos to burn and both like to lead. Aggressive ARies wouldn't dream of taking second place, and kingly Leo needs constant admiration. Usually they can work it out by having Leo play the emperor and ARies play the general. The trick is for neither to take the other all that seriously. it's a fine combustible sexual match, for both are fiery and romantic. ARies is optimistic and open to life; Leo is generous and good-hearted. If neither tries to deflate the other—and if they can find room to compromise about who dominates whom—this should be a happy mating.

Answer 6

the signs dont help. break away from the signs mayb thats why. read the bible find a good christian church go together have a night where he has a guys night and that night u go and hang out with your freinds

Answer 7

how about dealing with the relationship instead of blaming it on stupid signs

Answer 8

I'm sorry i couldn't follow that

Answer 9

interesting

Answer 10

if you add fire to fire what do you get?