my partner and his father have gone to a funneral , left hme at 6.30 am are stillnot back home at 21.00 pm
his father has just been told he has cancer are they doing some bonding or just re living their freedom
mother in law hasent seen her husband for 2 days
this is all out of character for the two of them
2007-04-10 09:04:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and the problem is....?
2007-04-10 09:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but looking at this as a woman and if I had of had a good husband and if his father had been living and if this happened then I wouldn't mind. If I could have done that with him I would of cherished those moments.
I didn't have a good husband, I didn't have a father-in-law. My father was too far gone with cancer to have enjoyed those moments.
My 1st part is all ' Ifs' the second reality, let them enjoy their time together while they can.
2007-04-10 16:42:20 · answer #2 · answered by Bernie c 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I found out my father has cancer and all my "partner" does is post a stupid question like "why dont men ever grow up" On yahoo answers, yea I would never come home either.
2007-04-10 16:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by Relax Guy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if my father had just been told he has cancer...
i wud hope2 recieve love, patience, support & understanding from my spouse...
ofcourse it's out of character.... having cancer or knowing a loved1has cancer is devastating
put this in perspective.. give them a break
do u think maybe some1else here needs2grow up?
p.s. while I think that men in general have their fair share of faults... i think that it's unfair2say that they 'don't ever grow up'-
a few definitely don't but it's the same with some woman!
2007-04-10 16:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by jammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say bondin if theyve been 2 a funeral then u can garentee their gettinn drunk, but that is very sad news bout the cancer, theyll need 2 talk, n theyll b worried, mayb this is his way of dealing with it, after all ur mother in law says its out of character, its not everyday ur told them things
good luck 2 uzs all hope it alln wrks out 4 the best.
if i was u just go 2 bed n ask in the morn how it all went, ur hubby just needs ur support, dont b mad xxxx
2007-04-10 16:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by geordiesteph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds grown up to me. A man that spends time with his father after receiving such bad news sounds mature to me.
If your mum told you she had cancer, wouldn't you want to spend some time with her?
2007-04-13 09:44:21 · answer #6 · answered by Jugular 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are just realizing how little time they have together. Men cope with things especially emotional things differently then women. This may be their coping mechanisms.
Just be sensitive sometimes men feel they can be.
2007-04-10 16:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by bookworm87 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Typical woman controlling their man. Interrogated when they go out for a pint or two. Id be supprised if they ever return..
2007-04-10 16:10:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we do grow up. for a man to grow up he must make a mistake and learn form them. he is in real pain death is not easy to over come. Ur man is about to lose his farther and his farther is about to lose his sun, that kind of pain has no words, that's when Ur world falls a part, dont hate him to him his life is over to. u should love him he needs you more then ever
2007-04-10 16:43:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if women weren't such nags they would have come home by now. See anyone can make a stupid generalization.
2007-04-10 16:08:34 · answer #10 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
maybe they just need time for themselves for a few days. don't either of them have a cell phone?
2007-04-10 16:08:43 · answer #11 · answered by engineer46526 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋