What are your experiences/thoughts/views?
2007-04-10 09:01:19 · 27 answers · asked by Colette 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
both, be committed to someone but dont lose your independence, otherwise it will lead to possible insanity!
2007-04-10 09:05:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both...if you are committed to the right person, independence should be factored in for both of you. If it is an activity or hobby, it gets tougher when other people depend on you. I sometimes hated marching band because I was committed to doing things at certain times....all the time, and my independent life went away for certain parts of the year.
2007-04-18 14:22:54 · answer #2 · answered by Willow_Elf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Independence at the moment - always believed in commitment - still do, but I am doing the independent bit at the moment.
2007-04-16 08:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by Guenivere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
commited now 8 years but still independent in some ways and loving it
2007-04-10 16:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by hfroggie2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm now committed to my own Independence
2007-04-18 04:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by mauikittie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Independence because you never know when the person you are committed to will turn on you.
2007-04-10 16:09:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Independence all the time. You can be committed to someone and still keep you independence though surely.
NEVER depend on anyone but yourself. Your asking for trouble otherwise
2007-04-10 16:08:04 · answer #7 · answered by Miss RoZy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well commitment is nice if you have the option of being independence like if your boyfriend lets you be free...then you don't really want to be free because you feel guilty isn't that odd?
2007-04-18 12:29:43 · answer #8 · answered by shopriteismylife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are in a great relationship when you can maintain your independence and still be committed. No crap about where r you going and when you gonna be back. Whining is not allowed. Each maintains their own sets of friends and interests. And no one gets hurt by it!
2007-04-10 16:09:47 · answer #9 · answered by amyf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
commitment for me i like to feel secure...but i am still independent mainly because he is away for 2 weeks at a time so you can have both
2007-04-18 12:27:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's great to be independant but not too much you need to be able to ask for help from time to time too and commitment i am very commited
2007-04-16 18:20:24 · answer #11 · answered by bubblesno11979 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋