What a broad question. Well...let the little things go, since people make bigger deals out of detail. And explain your problems using I language instead of you. For example, "I feel like you aren't respecting me." not "You aren't respecting me."
2007-04-10 08:29:39
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answered by Alexis 3
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Choose not to participate in an environment of argument. One person arguing is like the sound of one hand clapping. If another person tries to "bait" you into an argument, you have the choice to participate or not. Don't take the other person's desire to argue personally.
They are the one choosing to argue, they have the problem. The bottom line is to learn how to resolve the conflict, not argue about who is "right."
Arguing is a zero-sum game. One person wins, the other loses. It doesn't solve conflict. It just causes hurt and frustration.
If you want to learn more about how to stop arguing with someone you love, check this free website out:
http://www.my-counseling-site.com/stop-arguing.html
Good fortune my friend.
2007-04-11 02:39:22
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answered by LV-Therapist 3
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Drink two eight-ounce cups of transmission fluid.
Dexron III is best.
DON'T get this stuff on your clothes.
I'm not a doctor, and I don't play one on TV.
I have seen almost an entire episode of Doogie Howser, though.
2007-04-10 15:31:41
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answered by Anonymous
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take a deep breath and listen to the other person and when they're finished say "You're right"
you won't be arguing anymore
2007-04-10 15:29:00
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answered by DrPepper 6
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Stop speaking
2007-04-10 15:28:10
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answered by Love always, Kortnei 6
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Walk away
Ignore the other person
Stop speaking
Try for a better solution
2007-04-10 15:29:22
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answered by Anonymous
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Don't log onto Yahoo answers, that's for sure!
=)
God Bless
2007-04-10 15:29:30
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answered by holy_see 3
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count to ten and think of something nice from the past. If that doesn't help take a long bath.
2007-04-10 15:29:52
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answered by laney 5
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Stop speaking and walk away.
2007-04-10 15:32:28
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answered by Daughter of a Coma Guy 7
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Shut up and do as you're told.
Or you could just shoot the other person. Either way, it works.
2007-04-10 15:28:24
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answered by Iggy 7
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