Am I making the right decision?!?

Question

So me and my boyfriend have been together on and off for the past 5 years. He's cheated a few times, but for the past year or so, we've been living together, in which we do everything including taking a shower, pooping infront of each other, shaving each other pubic hairs, (too much?! sorry, lol!) but we do alot together, he's done sum screwed up stuff that i've found about like a few incidents on myspace, and calling phone chat lines. I've just basically got tired of everything, but i Love him, like fa real, and we have good times together too, but he doesn't help on the rent nor utilities, but he does help around with the food n stuff, most of my friends tell me that he's just using me, my mind is really gone at this moment, but he's leaving on thursday, am i making the right decision by makin him leave or should i just try and maybe work things out, were both young, i'm 22 and he's 21.
HELP ME!

Answer 1

I agree with your friends, he is using you. But with that said you are the only one who knows how you feel about him leaving. Your young and still can find someone who really cares and loves you. If he had taken more of a interest in your and his life it might be different, but going on myspace and chatting with other girls only leads me to believe he isn't ready to settle down. I think your making the right decision, but again I am not the one in love with him. Trust me if he loved you he would be more of a man and not do things to hurt you.