I am just a teeneger and I want to know because I am a little scare bout that.Please help.
2007-04-10 06:11:33 · 10 answers · asked by taitiaraliz 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Ohh sweety. Honestly, it depends. Girls, you know what I'm talking about. Your fist time will break your hemen and there may a small amout of blood or not. If your ready then you'll be ready and you'll take it there. But if you are scared, be scared, that's your conscience telling you to wait and think about it a little longer.
2007-04-10 06:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by Army Gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, actually, I hate to tell you this, but it does. At least the first time. For me, I started way too young. I had no idea how to enjoy it. It really hurt, and I bled for days afterwards. I was scared and didn't tell anyone. Now I know that was my hymen which had been torn, and I was bleeding internally. That's a little scary, no?
Also, I started getting really bad yeast infections and I always had this awful burning, stinging pain.
I was just dang lucky not to get any serious sexually-transmitted diseases, but that can happen, too. They are VERY common. So, if you're going to try it, please use a condom. Guys don't like them, but they know they are supposed to use them, so if you ask, they will. It doesn't make much difference to you, as the girl. I actually like them.
I'm going to tell my daughter all of these things, and hopefully she will talk to me, when the time comes. I want her to know that sex doesn't really feel that great, and it feels even worse when you do it with some guy, and then he ignores you after that. You will feel pretty stupid and hurt, not to mention what a tragedy it would be if you got pregnant, or got AIDS or something!!!!
If you want to enjoy sex, learn to touch yourself and please yourself first. That way, you can guide your partner into ways which will make it feel good. OK. That is very adult talk, but you know what? It's safer and MUCH more pleasurable than some guy fooling around with you who doesn't know what he's doing.
Just stick to hugging and kissing for now, ok? Teenage guys don't know how to be nice and gentle and take their time getting you completely ready, so that it won't hurt.
2007-04-10 13:21:40 · answer #2 · answered by purplebinky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can tell you is from my own experience. Chances are who you have sex with, it will be their first time too. Since niether of you really know what you are doing it can be....uncomfortable for some girls. It didn't hurt when I had sex for the first time but it was a weird feeling because it was something I have never felt before. Don't expect an orgasm the first time....very rare. It gets much much better though. And who kows your first time could be amazing. Educate yourself though on everything before you decide to have sex. (HPV def get!, look into birth control or other protection, and know your own body.) Have fun experiencing life just don't do it before you know you are ready.
2007-04-10 13:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by liese513 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time you have sex it can hurt, especially if your hymen is still intact, it isn't always, even if you are a virgin.
After your first time it shouldn't hurt if you are properly lubricated, and are taking it easy and listening to your bodies signals. If it still hurts then you need to consult a doctor.
Just wait until you are sure you have found a person you want to share something so special with, and make sure you are ready.
Good Luck
2007-04-10 13:22:41 · answer #4 · answered by moonshadow418 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me it is usually a little painful at the beginning, but then gets better. Some friends i have talked to it doesnt hurt at all, so its different for everyone. If you do become sexually active, be safe and protect yourself hun.
2007-04-10 13:16:02 · answer #5 · answered by Namename 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i had sex for the first time, it didnt hurt, it just wasnt enjoyable. it didnt feel good until i had been having sex for about 2 1/2 years. now it feels awesome.
2007-04-10 14:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first time u have sex yes it hurts? but then after a few times it feels good?
2007-04-10 13:14:46 · answer #7 · answered by i luv ariana alize! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it shouldn't but if you are young please hold off having sex unless you want to take the chance of getting pregnant. It is ALWAYS a possibility.
2007-04-10 13:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by fuzzyfontaine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it hurts...& it hurts even more to have a baby!! & guess what?!
sex=baby
so watch out!!!
2007-04-10 13:19:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if its done right
2007-04-10 13:14:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋