is it possible to even get a guy to be more sexually open in bed, aren't most guys supposed to be like this naturally and maybe he's just hiding it....lol. is there a way to make him more "freaky" in bed? is there a such thing as a guy being "shy" during sex??
2007-04-10 05:06:25 · 16 answers · asked by mariahbutterfly2480 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
some guys are shy because we think you are not freaky, and we don't want you to think we are pervs. But if you start introducing new ideas he will come out of the shell. Once he thinks you are freaky; you are going to probably say, "OK baby, I don't do aaalll of that, but I would definetely do this." And that is just magic!
2007-04-10 05:20:32 · answer #1 · answered by Enrique V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Choose a night when you will be able to relax. Open a bottle of wine, or have a beer, or whatever you two drink. Then, put on a dirty movie and just watch with him. Ask him to tell you what parts turn him on. Tell him that knowing that turns you on. Share what parts do it for you too. Talk about things you'd like to do to/with him and ask him how that makes him feel. Fantasize together, if you can. Eventually, he'll learn that it's ok with you and normal to let it out. Invite him to share. Things will happen; just be patient and loving. It's not always just about the physical sexual part; it's a process sometimes.
2007-04-10 06:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by curlyk2002 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi ..of course guys can be shy ..being a guy i think id love to share my thoughts..sex starts much higher up than u think..if u feed a mans ego. in such a way dat he thinks ur genuine.then he will really freak out..so baby use ur mind to stimulate his.and trust me .da results will be amazing..give him genuine compliments..but with ur kisses..and ur hugs.eg..if u like his ears.just go there kiss them and whisper in his ears..how sexy u find them.
2007-04-10 08:20:20 · answer #3 · answered by sgaziani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your boyfriend is not as attracted to you as you might think. Maybe he doesn't get freaky because he can't get himself going with you. OR perhaps he's not comfortable. You should tell him how you feel otherwise your not going to get anywhere
2007-04-10 05:32:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sure guys can be shy in bed.....but most are REALLYYYY Freaky in the head!!!
So bring out the freak in him!!!
2007-04-10 05:10:57 · answer #5 · answered by Dirty Sanchez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably hiding it. Bend over let him give it to you from behind. Let him give you anal, do 69 or something. But don't get to freaky and bring in whips chains or gay crap thats pushing it to far.
2007-04-10 05:10:52 · answer #6 · answered by T-Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men have their so called freaky side. One thing...You should ask (was he abused?) Sometimes that will make him not show his true emotions. You be surprised when he opens up....then you got ur freak....
2007-04-10 08:22:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try starting with.... wiping out his inhibitions, giving free rein to your desires and see if he likes them too. Maybe he just need to know what are your limits and doesn´t know it yet.
2007-04-10 07:04:04 · answer #8 · answered by usbc s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you want him to do to you. Odds are, you'll be in for a nice surprise. Communication is the key.
2007-04-10 05:20:39 · answer #9 · answered by ~RedBird~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should dress up as a police officer tell him that hes been a bad boy and needs to be punished that will get him loose
2007-04-10 06:25:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋