Energy vampire?

Question

they exisit, i know one, i can not avoid her. How do we put up a fight, how do i block the lifeforce she takes.

for those who don't know: an Energy vampire is just the name. it's when you talk to a person, and when your done you feel emotionally drained and sleepy, but they seem to get more hyped up.

She is my husbands ex wife, they have a kid together, this is why we cant avoid

Answer 1

you need to vizualize a brick wall that you keep your energies behind. maybe with a solid steel door that only you can unlock (so you can get at your energy when you need it). work on this when you are not around her. meditate on it. she knows you are a good source of constant energy and is attracted to it. if you can, in anyway, try to get her out of your life.
although it's fiction and a little rough, laurell k. hamilton describes the concept really well in her anita blake novels.
it's YOUR power. take control of it. good luck.

Answer 2

I have a friend like that. I try to avoid her at all costs. There are several things you can do: Get a black candle and carve her name in it. On the night of the New Moon light the candle and repeat "Away from me with no harm to thee." Do this every night for 7 nights. Nothing Satanic about this. I did it and got rid of one for 10 years. You have to be sure to say the words EVERY time you light the candle. If you don't want to do this then you can carry a pack of salt in your bra. That works pretty well also.

Answer 3

I know exactly what you mean. In fact, I believe that Jennifer Lopez is sucking the life out of her husband Mark Anthony. He used to look so hot, now everyone thinks he looks like Golum from Lord of the Rings.

My suggestion is just the get away from this person and try to avoid them, shove other people in their direction if you have to.

I love the sage suggestion. You should burn it in a sea shell.

Answer 4

I use amethyst to ward them off. Also humming or singing outloud can help. I carry an amethyst in my purse and have an amethyst bunny rabbit sitting on my desk at work. It seems to help.

Do not let the person "dump on" you. Do not let her tell you her stories of woe only to take the pressure off of her. If I don't want to talk to someone, I keep typing when they come in or even turn my back to them! You can also make someone leave by standing up and moving toward your door (if in an office or a cubicle). Also you can fake trips to the bathroom or fake an errand.

Good luck! :)

Answer 5

If you find that a person emotional drains you. Avoid them or take them with a pinch of salt. Alternatively use a sharp wooden stake and threaten them, Ooh or a mirror

Answer 6

Just don't give in to her attempts. Be calm and cool around her, don't get upset or angry or otherwise emotionally involved in what she says; just act sort of like you're watching the interaction rather than being truly in it.

Or else tell her she's annoying you and make her go away. XD

Answer 7

Conjure up every single bad thing you can think of. Harp on the worst. Be the biggest pessimist you can be. See what kind of energy she takes from you then...and you'll have a great day afterward because all that nasty energy will have left you.

Answer 8

First of all, I would - and do- carry a [protein bar with me for those times when I need a pick me up
Set clear boundaries with her.. Don't feel badly for needing to cut a conversation short.
Build up your spiritual energy by prayer, or meditation

I do this and it really helps

Answer 9

Learn how to visualize -- once you have master visualization, just visualize a brick wall between the two of you and she will not be able to get past it.

Answer 10

Find a way to raise her life state; try Buddhism!