Because of past bad experiences?
2007-04-10 04:57:44 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Oh Rebellious, Let me put it this way, I wouldn't TRUST anyone near the controlling switch if my hand were down the garbage disposal.
I do not trust the Airlines to transport any baggage I cannot afford to be without on the Arrival side of my flight.
With relationships, I will trust the person with my love but it takes longer to trust them with my money. I have trusted lovers with my money before.
Before a pair can move to the next level they must take a chance and push the bubble else we are all destined for the status quo.
2007-04-10 05:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am a pretty trusting person. I tend to always see or try to find the good in people. Past experiences that may have been bad do not cloud my judgment today. Those I meet along the way don't have anything to do with the past.
My sweetheart was easy to trust right away. He has always been open and honest with me and is truly a good man. He is a wonderful, kind person who is more trustworthy than anyone I know.
2007-04-10 12:51:45 · answer #2 · answered by girlnamedmaria 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust is only one part of a persons make up. It takes me a long time before I get to know someone, and longer to get to trust him/her. It's not that I have had a bad experience, its' the constant reporting on TV and newspapers about all kinds of scams. All you have to do is go on the Internet a,d you will find out in short order how many people are out there trying to get something for nothing out of you.
2007-04-10 05:12:02 · answer #3 · answered by Alfie333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does actually. My boyfriend had a hard time "breaking down" the wall that i had up. I still have trust issues, but he's amazing and is patient.
Also, I have a hard time trusting friends because of past experiences.
But, I refuse to not allow myself to fall in love or make new friends because of my past experiences. I just made better choices and judgements.
2007-04-10 05:00:59 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally speaking, trusting anyone these days takes a long time. People as a general rule are not trustworthy. Which is indeed very sad. Used to be deals could be made on a handshake, not so anymore. And trusting someone with your heart can take even longer.
2007-04-10 05:02:50 · answer #5 · answered by Aunt Henny Penny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I am a very private person to begin with and I have had a bad experience with a friend I shouldn't have trusted. Makes it even more difficult to trust anyone.
2007-04-10 05:01:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe there are two kinds of people in the world in relation to trust. You have the type of person who in the beginning of a relationships that give immediate trust to a person. Something like a whole, blank piece of paper just waiting to be written on. The other is the type of person that gradually gives trust over time, as it's earned. So piece by piece of that blank piece of paper is given until a whole sheet of paper is obtained and full trust is gained. I happen to be the type of person who immediatly hands over the full piece of paper at the beginning of relationships. And as trust is broken I rip off a piece of that paper and trust a little less. I've had relationships so hurtful, that there isn't a piece of trust left. And I find it very difficult to trust that individual at all and move with great caution in my dealings with that person. I hope this is helpful. I suggest you find out what kind of person you are and how you give trust. Number one if will make you feel more comfortable with yourself and set you free to move at your own pace. Secondly, I trust my instincts. God gave us that inner voice to help us on life's journey. If something does'nt feel right, it may not be. In other words, your instincts may be telling you there is good reason not to trust an individual. Thirdly, you may have had past reasons why you find it difficult to trust. And if that is the case, understanding the trust issue lies within you and not the individual whom lacks your trust. And lastly, my husband (who is a preacher) always says we must become, first, what it is we are looking for in someone else. So make sure you are trustworthy and you will incounter others who are trustworthy as well. We reap what we sow.
2007-04-10 05:21:56 · answer #7 · answered by Taylor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and I find that to be not such a good thing. I trust everybody and get hurt a lot because of it. I don't like to hurt people and always seem to think everyone else feels the same way. This is, for the most part, not true.
2007-04-10 05:01:30 · answer #8 · answered by Sam h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that it's truly best if you let go of your past but at the same time learn from previous mistakes. If you are to be in a good relationship though you must have trust for it to work. I have complete trust in my sweetheart and she has complete trust in me to go along with the love we have for each other.
2007-04-10 05:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by toughguy2 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust should be earned and not handed out willy nilly.
If you trust too easily you WILL get burned, it's the nature of humanity.
As with love, trust should be a highly selective process.
Oh and yes, learned from being burned, as do most.
2007-04-10 05:01:58 · answer #10 · answered by alisongiggles 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋