i slept with 2 guys last month,4 guys 3 months ago.i feel really tired and sick in the mornings.sometimes i cant eat anything all day.how do i know if i'm pregnant?or if its just a bug going around?i've been so tired lately.
2007-04-10 04:17:29 · 35 answers · asked by lily_carmel_evans 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How strange - you sure know how to have sex with god knows who yet as a woman you DON'T know how to tell if you're pregnant - In the words of Victor Meldrew, I DON'T BELIEVE IT ! ! !
2007-04-10 04:46:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well first things first..take a pregnancy test. That would immediately answer your most pertinent question and take care some of your worries. It could be stress thats making you feel sick too. If it ends up being positive, go see a doctor immediately so that he/she can confirm.
I don't know what your situation is, but if you do or do not decide to have the baby, you may want to let the potential father know. It takes to and if he can help out in any way, even better. Now it might be easier said than done since you have six guys to go from. Hopefully when the doctor tells you how far along you are, assuming that you are pregnant, it will eliminate at least one or two guys as a possible father.
In the future, try to be a bit more careful when it comes to casual sex. Hopefully you realize that situations like these aren't exactly the ones you want to be caught in. Good luck.
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2007-04-10 04:31:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have had some good advice from folks on here, and some abusive advice too.
Please take notice of the good advice - get a pregnancy test, that is the first thing to do. If you are pregnant then you have some decisions to make - it might be too late for an abortion. You need to consider if you can raise a child or you might like to consider adoption. There are many couples out there that would jump at the chance of a baby who would come up for adoption and the child would have a wonderful life, maybe a better life than what you can offer at the moment. Remember, this is a life we are talking about, someone elses life.
If you are not pregnant then good for you.
Next - get an STD test for goodness sake. Some STDs can be cleared up - some can not.
Whatever the outcome, you need to take better care of yourself. Sleeping with six guys in two months with no protection shows me you have no respect for yourself. I am not judging you on your choices, but you DO need to use protection - that means condoms!
2007-04-10 09:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by fijibabie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
alright everyone leave her alone it's up to her who she sleeps with, and when.it doesn't make her a bad person.
anyway, try a pregnancy test. if you can't afford one, you should have a family planning clinic near you, they're often located in the doctors surgery. try www.yell.com to find your nearest. obviously then you can find out if you're pregnant or not.
as for the father thing...i'm not 100% sure but i don't think you would be getting morning sickness just yet if you were only a couple of weeks pregnant, so i would have thought it would be one of the guys from 3 months ago. either way, you need to get to a clinic asap so you have time to decide what's right for you to do. i'm sure you know the options you will have , i.e abortion, adoption or to keep the baby. if you did decide to keep it, you won't know who the father is until you give birth and have a dna test.
just try not to worry...it could be a bug, it could be pregnancy. either way, stressing about it will only make you feel worse, and if you are pregnant, won't be doing the baby any good.
and remember, if you are pregnant, they should be able to tell you a rough date, so if the guys were a week or so apart then that might let you know the most likely bloke!
good luck, and try not to worry. just get checked out asap, i.e tomorrow!
take care xxxx
2007-04-10 08:31:31 · answer #4 · answered by angelpinklotti 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is a lot of hate being thrown around answering your question, and a lot of God too. Judging is up to God, not to me or anyone else. You've made poor choices, but that doesn't mean you won't make wiser choices from now on.
Take a pregnancy test. You can get them at any drug store for pretty cheap. If it comes out neg. then all you have to worry about is what flu you have. If it comes out positive then you have to weigh your options.
Options after positive ID of pregnancy:
1. Have and keep the baby.
2. Have and give the baby up for adoption.
3. Abortion. (chemical or surgical)
A word of advice, stick to one man at a time. With at least two menstrual cycles in between each man. That way you don't have to guess who the father will be. You don't want to end up on one of those talk shows and look like a fool.
2007-04-10 04:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by Poppet 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First I'd learn the meaning of the word contraceptive.
Then I'd get a pregnancy test. If its positive, time to tell ALL SIX guys that you may be pregnant and one of them is the father. If its negative, nothing to worry about.
You might want to tell them to get checked for STD's since you slept around like that.
There is a term for people like you... several terms actually. None very flattering.
2007-04-10 04:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by Terri 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to go and get tested. If you are pregnant the Dr can give you a date that should be able to help you figure out about when you got pregnant so you can figure out the father. Next time wear protection so you don't end up on Maury for the 10th time trying to find out who's the daddy!
2007-04-10 04:28:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's a lot easier to get aids than a baby. You could very
well have aids already. I wouldn't touch you with a ten foot
pole. If it is a baby, what will you do make again another bad
choice? Why would anyone throw there life away like that?
Hope you'll be OK! Talk to some one.
2007-04-10 04:43:44 · answer #8 · answered by wayne g 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have been putting it around without any thought about what the consequences might be. Now you are going to learn the Hard way .I will not repeat the good practical advice you have received to your Question here,but I am afraid you will not take any of it.Apart from anything else you need protection from infecting yourself from sexual decease.Hope you have some luck now--- you will need it.
2007-04-10 08:36:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take a test and if your not buy some condoms and get tested for stds and be ashamed of yourself.Sex is not a bad thing but be safe how unfair to have a baby and then not know who the father is you need to get some self esteem.
2007-04-10 06:24:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sleeping with 6 guys in 3 months, chances are you could be pregnant - one word contraception!
2007-04-10 04:21:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋