he has 35 years ols , i have 19 .. i first hang out with him just for his money ,now i think i love him . He said that he`ll leave his family to marry me
2007-04-10 04:15:42 · 33 answers · asked by demeter r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes and that will happen when? You are his midlife crisis. If you honestly think that he will leave his wife for you you are nuts. And a home wrecker. Go get a single guy close to your age and leave this woman's family alone.
2007-04-10 04:18:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Firstly if he does leave his wife and marry you, you are only getting a cheater, and he can't promise you anything different than he promised her .... meaning that he will do the same to you as he has done to her. Perhaps you are doing her a favor, she's certainly better off to be rid of him.
Secondly, what are you thinking? This man is married. Do you not have any respect for anyone ... least of all yourself?
Lastly, if it weren't for your young age, obvious immaturity and lack of knowledge about life, I would say that you both deserve each other. I hope that time gives you a little more between the ears than you are currently dealing with. Find yourself a real man who has some integrity.
2007-04-10 04:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by Chikadee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is a problem! I can't believe you would even ask a question like that! Firstly, the chances of him leaving his family for a 19 year-old kid is incredibly slim, and if you believe his lies, then you are entirely too gullible. Secondly, if he would be willing to leave his family for you, not only does that make you a terrible person for breaking up a marriage and a family, but why would you want to be with a man who obviously has such little morals or integrity?
2007-04-10 04:31:40 · answer #3 · answered by carolina3415 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very big problem, both of you guys are WRONG! Do you really think he would leave his wife for you? 9 times out of 10 most married men don't leave their wife for their mistress and even if he did don't you think that he will do the same thing to you one day? You are a home wrecker and I don't have any respect for women like you. Why can't you go out and get a single man of your own? Remember what goes around comes around.
2007-04-10 04:40:41 · answer #4 · answered by tys200230291 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer think that he desires to pass away his kinfolk for you. If he did no longer choose his marriage, he'd have left it already. Telling you he desires to pass away his kinfolk for you is basically a hook to reel you in like landing a fish. Is there a difficulty putting out with a married guy? confident! A relationship with a married guy purely reward him, no longer you. He gets intercourse without procuring it from 2 women. it is likewise unfair to his spouse. If he did pass away his spouse for you as a results of fact he met you, he might even marry you, yet if so, whilst he stumbled on somebody new, he'd do the comparable to you.
2016-10-21 12:49:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a tuff situation....I have to say I don't think he will leave his family for you !
I know you love him and it's hard ,but try to think about your life, you are so young and should not have to deal with this kind of situations.
People here are mean ,but you have to face reality and use your mind in stead of your heart.Just tell him (pressure him ) to leave his wife and you'll se the real reaction.....
I think you are just naive at this age and need a lot of help to deal with this situation.
Good luck.
2007-04-10 04:41:41 · answer #6 · answered by Juliet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your pretty ignorant, why don't you find someone who doesn't already have a family. Why would you want to be a part of his destruction to his wife & kids? You need to do some serious soul searching & find out exactly what kind of person you are. What makes you think that he won't cheat on you after marriage? Walk away & be the person god intended you to be.
2007-04-10 04:26:13 · answer #7 · answered by Reckless 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE IN TROUBLE GIRL! RUN! There is never a reason to split a family apart. And if they go to divorce court you could be forced to testify or go to jail (subpoena). You don't sound like you are mature enough to handle the reality of that relationship. Money is not worth you soul. God doesn't look kindly on Adulterers. Take care of yourself!
2007-04-10 04:21:50 · answer #8 · answered by Pachinko Machine 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are both immature. You have to look into the future and see how it would feel to have to deal with an ex wife, spousal support, child support and visitation of his kids, and several other problems that will come up.
You may love his money, so looking into the future and realizing that a good chunk of it will go to his ex and their family instead of you.
2007-04-10 04:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by Big Bear 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he will leave his family to marry you. Then 5-10 years later, he will leave you too when he meets someone newer and younger. How could you ever trust him? And do you really want to be responsible for breaking up someones family? I know I wouldn't want that kind of guilt.
2007-04-10 04:21:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋