guys i m in a gr8 problem!!!!!!!!?

Question

this year i m entering 11th class & i have 2 make choice b/w maths or biology. when i was doing my 9th i was much attracted 2 biology but now situations have changed now i have started liking maths & i want 2 opt maths .i want 2 do engeenring & give aieee also the another reason is engeenering is easier then medical i really don't think i can carry medical line but the prob is tat my mother wants me 2 be a docter she herself tried medical line but due 2 some problems she failed & now she wants me 2 fulfill her dream i m the yongest in 2 children &my brother is studying engeenering .i dont want 2 break my mother's heart but what bout my likings??????? what should i do ?????????????

Answer 1

Follow your own dream. If your mother knows that this is what you truly want to do, she shouldn't stand in your way.

But learn to spell!!!!! Or at least learn to use a spell checker. You'll never get accepted to any decent engineering school if your entrance essay has mistakes like your question does...

Answer 2

Not really. You can opt for PCMB (physics, Chemistry, maths and biology). Taking this approach will give you more time to convince:
i) Yourself,
ii) Your mother.
You will also understand that Biology will get easier when you enter 11th, and maths gets tougher. And if you are really interested to do engineering, you must be a wizard in maths. Weigh the options. Take into account the following points:
1) After completing 11th class with PCMB, what is your thinking towards maths and Biology.
2) What you really like to be.

If you then decide to be a doctor, then there is no problem. If you are still inclined towards engineering, then convincing your mom is easy.
Do the following:
1) Take her to a quiet room, and bolt the door to avoid interruptions (this is the question of your future life)
2) Ask her why she failed to be a doctor.
3) Question her 'does she expect you to pass where she failed?'
4) Tell her that you find yourself very weak in biology, and have absolutely no interest studying it (tell this, even if you find the subject interesting..!)
5) Tell your mother that you will not be able to cope up with the heavy syllabus of medicine, and you prefer more to join engineering.
6) Tell your mother that you know how hard she struggled in her life to come up. Tell your mother that you understand her pains and feelings.
7) Ask her, ''isn't she ready to make this sacrifice for you?''
8) Now, tell her (firmly) that you want to be an engineer, and (enthusiastically) tell your plans about it.
9) (This is the most important part) Tell your mom that you will not be happy studying medicine. You will not be able to achieve that status, and contentment in medicine course. Tell your mother that you will be not as happy as you will be if you had joined engineering. Tell your mother that you have firm belief in achieving something in your life if you join engineering.
10) Now give your mother some time to think about all that you said. Give her a chance to make the decision. Tell her that you value her comments. Maintain eye-contact, and wait.

Your mother will definately agree with you. Your way is clear to become an engineer.
Good luck!

Answer 3

Follow your HEART. This is an important decision u r making. Ultimately it is you who have to decide. Parents often have very big dreams about their children, but if you think you will not be able to cope up, its good you share your worries and interests with your mother. Tell ur mother that any profession is the same unless u can put the best efforts in that field & engineering is a very good branch with comparitively lesser work and a better pay. If you have a doctor who is close to your family, he can help you out. You & your mother should talk to him about your future plans. As you have rightly analyzed, medicine is a highly demanding field and you shouldn't enter it with a half mind. Also if you want to think in terms of good income, try anything but medicine. Its very late that you will b earning.

Answer 4

Your moment is there....try sitting with your mom and explain her your liking and the career path you wanna take. Remind her what would she do if she was in your position. When she was also in the same age, ask her why did she have a liking for medical. Same can be applied to you as you are her kid, right? Don't break your heart but you should see that you don't break your mom's heart too. You tell her that you have a clear idea of what you wanna do (u seem to have it as per what you have written in your question) and so you can succeed. If you don't have any clear idea and vision it will just turn out to be a mere failure.

Answer 5

choose what u want to. ultimately u have to study. give exams and built ur career. medical is really very difficult. if u want to do engineering then take up -physics, chemistry , maths, computer. but if u cant convince ur mom then take PCMB, and skip computers. this way more career lines would be open for u. u can do bio technology or genetic engineering. these r the latest fields of interest.

Answer 6

Its your future you should decide first and talk to your mother and convince her. So opt maths and study well. You will have a great future all the very best...

Answer 7

Very simple just tell your mom that you wanna do maths. In case that does not work then take both maths and biology.There is this group "Maths ,biology,physics and chemistry" in all the cbse schools.

Answer 8

Do what you are good at. Your mother will understand eventually. Mother is a mother after all. She understands well her children. Don't worry. Doing a thing not whole-heartedly is not wisdom.

Answer 9

i think so u should know ur shelf which best stream for you and in which u r interested, if ur sure u can do engineering more well than u should enter in maths only, therefore dont take risk by taking biology

Answer 10

You have to be frank with your mom.Since she would want you to enjoy what u are going to do and not take it as a burden.If u can convey your liking to her and the reason but at the same time respecting her wishes and not downplaying her desire.I'm sure she would understand.
Cherio