For whatever reason, you started thinking, "I don't think I can do this successfully." An accident? A close call?
Confidence is the feeling "I can do this." You get it by doing it, by driving and proving to yourself that you can do it. So you "get back" that feeling by mustering up the courage to get in the car and take a short trip, and then another, and soon you'll have the feeling back again.
2007-04-10 03:18:13
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answered by ? 7
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Yes, I had stopped driving for almost a year, after running over a cyclist who popped right into a busy traffic roundabout near my home. Luckily, the man suffered only slight fractures and other injuries but was hospitalized for nearly 3 weeks.
The sight of some blood on the street and on my car and the man writhing in agonizing pain was enough to shake me terribly and stop driving. Would get nightmares where either the steering of the car or its brakes would vanish and would wake up in cold sweat.
However, mine was a new car and I was paying the mortgage. A friend who works as a professional driver forced me to take the wheel again and we would go on long drives every afternoon, for nearly 3 months. That made me regain my confidence and more...make me a safe and defensive driver.
2007-04-10 04:10:24
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answered by papars 6
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Yes I had an accident, someone blew a stop sign, literally coming out of nowhere, and hit me broadside. I wasn't hurt physically just scared silly. When I tried to drive after that I was very frightened. I lost my confidence in being able to avoid accidents and to be killed unexpectedly. Fortunately, I didn't have the choice not to drive after that, I lived alone and had to go to work etc. So I drove places and kept talking to myself, "this is silly" "don't be afraid" "just watch for more for other cars" and things like that. It took a few months for the fright to leave me.
2007-04-10 03:21:58
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answered by Jean M 2
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I even have been on your shoes extremely bit greater worse. My lady pal broke up with me with the comparable reason. She pronounced she does not feels the comparable way approximately me. The spark she speaks of isn't the only subject that retains a relationship at the same time. i actually tried explaining it to my lady pal yet no longer something helped. i'm undecided what your age is yet i'm assuming which you're a teenager as you have been speaking approximately college and stuff. At this age i think we tend to no longer look on the deeper aspects of relationships and feeling the spark gets greater significant. it heavily isn't your responsability to maintain the spark alive. the solid subject on your venture is that she is slightly at a loss for words and remains attempting to verify. So the greater you may talk along with her the greater advantageous this is going to get. I study a piece of writing it slow back that how love unquestionably works. There have unquestionably been researches. nicely unquestionably it wasn't a piece of writing, I observed this episode on Discovery. indexed right here are my notes: Love is like dependancy Love is a matching feeling to worry / exhilaration (so would be you need to take her for a curler coaster experience in an entertainment park) With time as we get to understand further and extra approximately one yet another the pastime / appeal of latest stories pass low. So attempt new issues like connect a dancing classification along with her or do some thing along with her that she loves. With much less adventure the subject comes with as quickly as we don't understand, now what? So i actually desire that she gets out of panic and wait and notice to adventure greater perfect issues inclusive of you previous this demanding section. yet while she has made up her suggestions then sorry pal, there is little or no longer something you're able to do. merely attempt to get a draw close of your life and that i promise quicker or later somebody else the two specific will come on your life back.
2016-10-02 11:41:06
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answered by ? 4
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I never stopped driving but, after my husband and I were in a bad car accident I became a very nervous driver for awhile. With time, this passed and I'm now back to normal. You don't explain what has happened to you, so it's hard to know exactly what to advise.
2007-04-10 03:19:16
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answered by clarity 7
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Never stopped. Although I want to. On average, I blow more money on buying, reparing, and gassing my car than I do for everything else combined.
Can you drive slower? Can you get a shorter commute? Can you make sure you are more aware while you are driving?
And then maybe you shouldn't drive again... driving means risking other peoples lives.
2007-04-10 03:23:57
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answered by blastermaster 2
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no
2007-04-10 03:23:15
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answered by ♥§o contagiou§♥ 5
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Huh??????????
2007-04-10 03:14:05
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answered by Anonymous
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