i am also a virgin am 21yrs old of age i will like to know more about using condom in sex .
2007-04-10 01:14:41 · 9 answers · asked by paulee n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
our times ...are those when being a virgin means nothing to people , even as trophy..it means less than cutting your nails shorter , or your hair , we have rights ,we can spoil our life ,choose to have sex or not , but , well , look around...since we choose to deal with sex as a sport , or as if we were just offering chewing gum to someone , has brought a lot of changes in society ,in kids , media has made us change , today we deal with a lot of problems , virtue is a word barely known ... but I am sure there are people out there , that respects , love and sex , even when they're not religious ....
your decision ... that's personal , ask a ginecologist , not a bunch of kids.........
2007-04-10 01:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by robertman30s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To use a condom is no hard work but it sure it neccesary. Don't use cheap condoms. Open the pack. Put the condom at the end of the penis and just roll it down. And to break your virgin is a very special occation. So don't just do it. Make it special!
2007-04-10 08:26:05 · answer #2 · answered by MiNi Daisy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it.
No, sex before marriage is sinful even if you love each other. Being in love doesn't alter the reality that the sexual act is outside of marriage, marriage being the ceremonial union of a man and woman in matrimony. Sex outside of marriage is called fornication and the Bible definitely condemns it.
Matt. 15:19-20, "For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witness, slanders. 20 “These are the things which defile the man."
Acts 15:29, "...that you abstain from things sacrificed to idols and from blood and from things strangled and from fornication; if you keep yourselves free from such things, you will do well."
1 Cor. 6:9-10, "Or do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, 10 nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, shall inherit the kingdom of God."
Heb. 13:4, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled; for fornicators and adulterers God will judge."
So, very clearly fornication is condemned in scripture and there is no provision for it being acceptable just because someone loves each other. Besides if this couple is so much in love, then why don't they carry out what true love is and marry each other? True love is when you put another person first, not when you take from them. For a man and woman to engage in fornication is to declare that such love for the other person is more self centered, than other centered.
2007-04-10 08:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
get on birth control pills too!!! dont Just use a condom
2007-04-10 08:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with bronzeba... there are directions on the condom packaging good luck ....i wish you were my girl
2007-04-10 08:24:22 · answer #5 · answered by thomas p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is, don't wait to long to put one on!
2007-04-10 08:18:28 · answer #6 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK IF YOU CAN NOT FIGURE OUT A CONDOM DON'T HAVE SEX !!!!!!!
2007-04-10 08:19:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
always use a cindum
2007-04-10 08:18:38 · answer #8 · answered by skcs11 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
www.plannedparenthood.org should have all the information you need.
2007-04-10 08:33:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋