"I Love You"???

Question

if a person says this line to someone then it means he/she loves that person, in older days love was truthfull but nowadays people are taking it very lightly and they dont know the meaning of love.why any reason? dont you think this line is becoming too common, today anyone says this to even unknown person, dont they know the meaning of love or they are just making fun of love?

Answer 1

I blame bollywood movies. They fall in love within a song and start saying, I love you, within 5 mins the song ends.

People don't know meaning of love. There is no love at first sight.


Nobody is perfect. The question is, whether or not you're perfect for each other.

Little idiosyncrasies that only I know about. Those made her my wife, my love. And she had the goods on me too. Little things I do out of habit. People call these things imperfections. It's just who we are. And we get to choose who we're going to let into our weird little worlds.

To have someone like that in your life is what love is.

Answer 2

Movies, media, songs, etc. The "ideal" relationship, there are many reasons.

Those three words -are- very overused and trite. However, if the person saying it really means it, under most circumstances it is also shown through actions, like doing little things for the person in thoughtfulness and stuff.

Sure they can be making fun of love or they don't know the meaning of love, but everyone is different. They might have their own reasons in saying it. You can't just judge any one person under one specific or general guideline. Everyone has grown or lived under different experiences and not one life is exactly the same. So someone can undergo the exactly same experience as you and come out with a completely different response.

Also, love is not just limited between significant others. You can say it to your friends and family and even your dog (or pets). There are many different types of love.

Hope that helps. Sorry if I sound too philosophical.

Answer 3

It is a word which take no time to come out from the mouth. If a boy looks a beautiful girl immediately without putting any pressure on his brain say I live you. Like wise girls are more reserved while saying this word. Once the signal from both side is in positive it is yes but if one is negative and other is positive the answer still remains as no. This is not applicable in case of older people. Older people really loves a boy or girl and says I love you that does not mean he intended for sexual relation but for his love and affection towards that boy or girl.

Answer 4

Most people equate love with lust.Any relationship in the beginning is fantastic.It excites..Its great to have someone to be with and share with instead of always being alone.As with everything in life these days , we rush into things.People seem to feel that they cant live without it.We don't take time to get to REALLY know anyone.
Yes,Love is thrown around like the common cuss word.
To me its probably the one word everyone needs to learn to use at the right time.Sometimes that may not be for years.Our world has become disposable like a Dixie cup.They have it in there heads...If it don't work,I'll move on to the next one.Not realising how they have messed up a lot of lives with the misuse of 1 word.

Answer 5

If you are a girl i suggest "get over it" and the word nowadays coming out from the guys mouth means nothing than he just wanna get laid with you (only if you have some hard prove by his sacrifice action) then it would mean that he is probably not seriously that "in" to you..or you ahve given it up too early for him ....

It is probably the same as how girls dress up to impress a guy, it does not tell the quality of her heart , but it let men fantasize about girls coz guys will get hook up by "appearance " while women get attached to "words"

so in this case i think women , for the sake of their own emotional satiable, need to control when to and not to give man

Also nowadays, i suggest look at us, we are living in high consumption speed era where everything can be made ready in a minute and easy to operates...(see how fast we travel nowadays, cooking by microwaves or mobile phone) and the consequence is that we often lack patience to deal with things that needs time and secondly we rarely care for consequence because it is time when everbody is thinking about "what they want" and "how to get it first"

We need change ..seriously....

Answer 6

different translations of the bible would recommend love and charity are synonmus. Examples recent in.1st Corrinthians ch. 13 vs. a million-17 illustrate this many situations. i'd appreciate listening to from a student of the languages used in those previous situations to make sparkling my understand-how. the story of the "international's Poorest Philanthropist", Gilbert "Harold" Ewing II (myself) is the reason at the back of this querry. The " act of grace", or charity, reffered to interior the information interview, has posited this question and that i lack one in all those coaching to offer any insights of authentic value.

Answer 7

I love you-this sentence has become a joke for a lot of people.When they want their work to be done this is the easiet way to take someone in trap weather it be a husband wife relationship.And for socalled lover boys this they say when they want to have sex with the girl.I am not trying to be blunt but this is the real case.But not all are the same.There are people who truly love their loved ones.

Answer 8

i agree with you.....its really hard being a woman these days. people have taken this love as kind of a show off all the times especially most of the guys think that having a girlfriend would make them look cool......thats why they do this...
and
good guys get curbed....

and i know it because i also love someone.....and even if im her good friend its really difficult to win a gal's trust.....all coz of this hype that "Love has become a showoff these days"

Just wait for the right time dear.....the right person will come for u....
This is exaclty what the gal i love says to me......and i telling u the same..
god bless.....

Answer 9

It depends on who your talking to,I love my husband with all my heart and soul and I luv my friends with the same love but with out the sex part.If your referring love to a sexual relationship then yes perhaps ppl may say it so easily but when you love someone in your heart,you know it.So,who is anyone to tell anyone who they are to love or how long they have to know a person before they can love them.I lost a real SPECIAL person on my life I never used the word love and I live with that every day.I did love him but I suppose since the the "whole use of the word love to some is over rated" I chose not to say it.I wish I would of told him I loved him,I DID!!! So,if you feel you love someone let them know by all means life is to short not to have love.

Answer 10

I agree people do take love lightly. People say it subconciously all the time. Some people may dont even know the meaning of true love which is unconditional.