What do your parents wish you you to do in using your freedom in all aspects?

Question

please let me know how far we should obey parents with in the framework of culture? Does your personality [ I mean, if you are introvent] play any role not sharing your fears and problems with your parents? How far parents are responsible? How far we as teens are responsible? Please give honest answers....

Answer 1

Freedom means expression of your feelings without disturbing the feelings of the other. Feedom is to enjoy your rights as a human beings a to perfrom your duties as one. sadly, people are able to manipulate the first half of the freedom but fail to look for the second half. Freedom is power, and power brings in responsibilities.

When your parents offer you some freedom, they are also offering you some responsibilities. However, few teenagers nag about their responsibilites. That is the reason behind the so called generation gap rift between parents and their children.

All the best...

:-)

Answer 2

Each freedom carries a responsibility with it.

You have the freedom to drive the car. You are responsible for driving the car safely.

You have the freedom to stay out until midnight. You are responsible for getting home by midnight.

You have the freedom to go to college. You are responsible to attend classes and make passing grades.

You have the freedom to build a campfire in the woods. You are responsible for clearing the area and not setting the woods on fire.

You don't understand something or don't know what is the right thing to do you are responsible for finding out from your parents or whoever.

Freedom is something you are clamoring for and your parents wish you to have as soon as you prove yourself responsible to accept things and handle them in an acceptable manner.

When you abuse your freedom, then your parents should pull back on the freedoms they gave you. For instance if you are a teenager and you have the car and your curfew is midnight and you finally show up at 2:00 a.m. drunk. That indicates that your responsibility is not what it should be.

Answer 3

Your parents are your guides to life. As you get older you will want to break away. Do it slowly. Ask them for additional privileges. Do share your fears, and problems either with your parents or another adult you feel that you can trust. You are not yet able to handle all situations. You are just learning. It is important that you learn from your parents and/or other responsible adults. Their guidance is what will make you a capable person when you are older.

Answer 4

when parents respect teen's privacy and trust them, teen's are responsible and aware, but when there is strictness and no good friendship between teens and parents, teens tend to violate all rules just to feel better in a way that "what do my parents know?" or "i'll show them who's boss" or "who are they to tell me what to do".........personality, maybe shy or compressed, don't say everything to their parents, but if parents give an open hand to teens to open up to them, it'll work all right..and especially if teens talk to parents rather than friends, because parents are more aware

Answer 5

well if your a teen then still obey them cause if you dont they will punish u by making u not aloud 2 go 2 places with ur freinds, and if your 11 or under than stick with there rulles a all that because they could: band you from tv take somthing you love away not give presents for christmas and all dem nasty things because parents can do anything to u AND I MEAN ANYTHING!!!!!

Answer 6

All are responsible till a good path is amended to move on. One thing is enough to measure or rate ourselves i.e, whether our parents feel proud and happy to be our parents or not. thats it!

Answer 7

firstly when Ur been given certain responsibility u should be honest with it same way parents give us space so that we adjust with time and i think we should respect their feeling & start beeing friendly & share your happiness & sadness as u share with ur best friends ............after all they have got us in this world and i am sure every parent want their childs best so dear its simple our life stars with our parents & their life ends with us.......

Answer 8

To make our country free from corruption, basically the unaccounted cash transactions should be avoided. For
that the following system may be adopted. We welcome your valuable suggestions.
In this system citizens of India above 12 years of age will receive a cell phone (identification instrument
capable of data processing with the aid of network services and the master computer. It will be integrated
with Global Positioning System.) with built in history card, camera and finger print scanner. Every citizen
will be assigned with an identification number *** cell phone number with finger print details. Problems with
the cell phone instrument will be immediately attended otherwise it will be replaced with another good
working one with the same data drawn from the data bank of the master computer. Tourists from other countries
will be given temporary instrument and their activities will be noted continuously. Children under 12 years
of age have to be taken care by parents or guardians. Peoples are doing mistakes because they believe that
nobody notices.
The history card consists of the following details and will be operated automatically from master computer
through reliable networking systems.
1.Name, 2. Family history, 3. Identification number *** contact cell phone number (even though a person
changes his/her name the identification number will not be changed), 4. Credit amount in rupees, 5. Debit
amount in rupees, 6. Details of each cash transaction, 7. Password protected transaction code, 8. Type of
transaction (details of work done and charges, reason for the transaction), 9. Net income, 10. Net expenses,
11. Tax payable to government (will be deducted automatically during every transaction and will be adjusted
with the net income every financial year). 12. Marital status, 13. No of crimes and cases against the person,
14. Rating.
Fingerprint and camera makes secure transaction and security code avoids others interference in the system.
The following are the advantages, later eliminates all the negatives in the country,
1. Reduces – corruption in all departments of government, private, public sector and other
organizations,
2. Reduces - irregularities in calculating tax,
3. Reduces - tedious calculations in finding net income,
4. Reduces - the operating cost by reducing the manpower requirement where ever cash has been dealt
(for example a conductor in bus, cashiers in bank can be utilized in another productive way),
5. Reduces - critical calculations in industries and inventory follow up,
6. Reduces - total control on unauthorized monetary and goods transaction,
7. Reduces - betraying, exploiting and cheating of innocent peoples, financial organizations through
tricks, over commitment and magic,
8. Reduces and totally eliminates fake currencies and fake stamp papers,
9. Reduces - selling bad quality or duplicate products,
10. Reduces -sudden variations in market price through gambling,
11. Reduces - illicit commodities like country liquor, marijuana and other related things,
12. Reduces -selling low valued goods with higher price,
13. Reduces - black markets and eliminates black money,
14. Reduces - price difference among material suppliers,
15. Reduces -unnecessary spending of money by children and parent dependant students in wrong way which
leads them to wrong way of doing life,
16. Reduces – blackmailing of persons for money,
17. Reduces - theft and robbing of cash and valuables,
18. Reduces - crime rate related with cash and properties and cost included in handling cases related to
money and properties,
19. Reduces -partiality in judgments,
20. Reduces -wrong or reduced valuation of assets,
21. Reduces -brokerage charges of agents, auditors, clerks and other human resources doing the same type
of repeated mathematical works,
22. Reduces -wrong statement of things or consumables and related items,
23. Reduces -wrong statement of events which exaggerates the situation,
24. Reduces -the expenses for anticorruption bureau, tax regularizing authority,
25. Reduces -diversion of youth power,
26. Reduces -terrorism and supporting activities,
27. Reduces - harassment of women for dowry,
28. Reduces -child labor, every children under the age of 12 years should undergo education program as
desired by government,
29. Reduces -dependency of men and women (everybody will work hard for their individual credit rupees),
30. Reduces -dependency of citizens with authorities (for getting certificates and verification where
ever required),
31. Reduces -queries arising in judging the value of insured goods,
32. Reduces -compulsory unaccounted donations to educational institutions (reduces cost of education),
33. Reduces-unaccounted donations to trusts,
34. Reduces -unaccounted properties, byname properties and assets,
35. Reduces - looting of money by showing wrong accounts, exploitation and looting of customers money in
the form of service charges and other expenses with out informing the customers,
36. Reduces -unauthorized telephone exchanges which creates loss to government,
37. Reduces -threatening for money or property because all the transactions are automatically recorded
and monitored by master computer,
38. Reduces -mental torture and deterioration,
39. Reduces -bribes,
40. Reduces -flesh trading, beggars who creates nuisance in public and makes the life of others
miserable,
41. Reduces –fraudulent activities,
42. Reduces – rowd-yism,
43. Ultimately reduces the total cost of living.
44. Increases government income because nobody can show wrong accounts, +
45. Increases better morale among peoples, +
46. Increases humanity, +
47. Increases total data control and history of individual, +
48. Increases accurate transaction details and activity reports, +
49. Increases correct benefit to deserved persons, +
50. Equality for all, +
51. Increases income of really hard working peoples, +
52. Increases effective rate of spending money, +
53. Peaceful life for all, +
54. Very easy processing documents like passports, immigration and other related works, +
55. Increases Quality of products, easier inventory control, +
56. Increases quality of life, +
57. Increases the level of attitude of all citizens, +
58. Increases Productivity, +
59. Healthy surroundings, +
60. Increases Quality of medical treatment independent of peoples capability of paying money, +
61. Increases Effective use of human resource, +
62. Increases Technological research and development in all fields, +
63. Increases safety and security, +
64. Increases control over immigrants and easier tracking of their activities, +
65. Increases control over Defense ministry and Ammunition officials, +
66. Increases the degree of watching on overseas calls and suspected calls from any citizen who lives in
INDIA to any,
67. totally eliminates the cost in conducting elections. peoples can be asked to cast their votes anywhere
from INDIA to their constituency with in that stipulated time.
68. easier crime and error reporting with the assistance of camera and GPS system with digital photo with
time and place+
We welcome more suggestions and the advantages, which you feel to make this system better. Send your
suggestions to [e-mail]
In the way of making better corruption free INDIA.
IMPLEMENTATION OF THE SYSTEM MAY TAKE A WHILE BUT IF IT HAS BEEN DONE, INDIA WILL BE THE BEST IN THE WORLD
and it is in our hand to pressurize authorities to implement it.
We regret if you find any mistake in this.
JAIHIND
Sincerely,
t.vijayakumar.