2007-04-08 22:45:26 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because that's what women do.
2007-04-08 22:47:21 · answer #1 · answered by Desperate Loser 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
You are choosing the wrong men because you do not know what you want from a man. Make a list of the most important qualities you need in a man. Then make a list of the things that you just will not tolerate. Try to judge the men you want to date by those lists. Don't get involved too quickly. Go to lunch with them a few times. Then move on to dating. Don't jump into a relationship until you know about them. It is usually best if the person is from your area. You can usually find out plenty from his friends and family without being obvious about your intentions. Just be sure to ask questions--but most of all get answers. Don't let them avoid answering questions.
Protect your heart. No one else will do it for you. Good Luck!!
2007-04-08 22:55:00 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Heyya. I know how you feel because I did it all the time. At first they would seem so great and wonderful but as time went on I saw their true colors and well it wasn't pretty at all! It's not your fault, some guys just put on an act in order to get the girl and once we have completely fallen for them well, then we get to see what losers they truly are. There are some great guys out there just remember that alot of people put on an act when first meeting and once they feel comfortable and you get to know them better it might be a scary thing. I have been there but you will find the right guy in time, I did:) Good luck to you! XX
2007-04-08 22:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jade AvA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would bet you are not completely content with yourself. Do some soul searching and set some standers and hold your boundaries. If you are quick to jump into relationships, don't. I am having the same problem and this is what I am doing. I came to the conclusion I was not ready for a relationship. So I have not been in one for a year. I have done a ton of soul searching and dealt with all my resentments toward others from my past. I could go on and on. If you want more advise, please send me a message.
2007-04-08 22:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm 23 and that i have not had a female friend before. would not appear like it is going to ensue each and every time quickly notwithstanding i'm kinda like you. (except for the lively sex area) i imagine that i could probably pull this style of life off yet i could could get faraway from human beings and THEIR relationships first. I hate it even as they throw it in my face. i don't know why all and numerous could locate it unusual. it truly is no longer something to be weirded about yet my journey with women human beings is borderline non-existant so i don't have many creditials.
2016-11-27 20:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think up three questions that you can ask the men you are interested in. Make sure you know what answers your ideal man would give to the questions. If the man you are interested in doesn't answer the question satisfactorily, pass him by and look for someone else. Don't trust your feelings, trust your intellect. Feelings come and go as easily as you can snap your fingers.
2007-04-08 22:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by billiardjay 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry, Do not know of one person who hasn't come across one or two nasties, before finding Mr Nice. The only thing is to make sure you learn from your mistakes.. Chances are you'll be able to spot Mr Creep before he has a chance to hurt you in future..
2007-04-09 23:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by Tilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations. At least you've realized that. Some women keep doing it, but never realize it. Same goes for men with women of course.
Step One accomplished!
How about reading "Path to Love" by Deepak Chopra? It might help.
Take care.
2007-04-08 22:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you have to try burgers 1st to know steak is better lmao so the idea is to shop around until you find whats right for you! if you go window shopping your not going to get the 1st item you see are you, you look around until you get the right one ;)
unfortually life is like that and we all make mistakes and learn from them...life's about experiences and to have the bad you then know not to go there again and go for the good :P
P.S kick me if im talking rubbish lol :P
2007-04-09 03:08:20 · answer #9 · answered by bandit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worried, u r still young, beautiful n' still have plenty of chance n' life 2go on. Sooner or later u'll get datin' or even married. Mayb there is some1 who is a decent guy like u secretly which u don't know who is it?
2007-04-08 23:01:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you also choice the wrong words?
2007-04-08 22:49:48 · answer #11 · answered by joey k 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋