am i the only one who cant stand women?

Question

to start off with i am a very heterosexual guy but recently the more i look at women and their conformity towards todays norms the more disgusted i become...all these sex and the city types that go around and flaunt what they have in order to get attention and are constantly holding the glass with the neon beverage with some little umbrella get under my skin...its not that i dont think women should go out and have fun like the guys but is there no decency anymore? every picture is one of her being bent over or frenching one of her friends. i mean im 21 years old and to me it seems cheap and pathetic. what happened to the women that cared more about their pride rather than what dress reveals enough t & a to be able to get into some club? am i just stuck in a past time? is anybody else bothered by this?

Answer 1

i feel somewhat the same, i see right through the fake bs act they put on, trying to get whatever they can from a man by flirting and pretending they give a crap, and what really pisses me off if the dumb suckers that fall for their garbage all the time.

Answer 2

I agree with you to a point. I think that women do it to attract the attention of men. I had friends who would always go out and dance together suggestively, and wouldn't you know it, the men in the bar would swarm around them. I do think it's cheap and pathetic, but I also think that men encourage it. My friends always looked at it as a way to meet more men than they would have otherwise. So the decency issue goes both ways. If there were not men that applauded that behavior, would the women behave that way? To give you an idea of how successful my friends were, the only time they ever paid for anything when we went out was the cover at the door. They never bought their own drinks. I am with you on being bothered, but who is it that is buying all the girls gone wild vids that exploit this behavior?

Answer 3

You should think about the kind of woman that you're going after. What drives you in life? What do you enjoy doing the most? Chances are there are women out there who enjoy the same things, have similar beliefs, and are running down the same road in life that you are. Sometimes you just have to stop and look around, she could be right under your nose! If you're not ready to settle down yet, then I suggest giving the dating scene a break for a little while. If you're angry and bitter, chances are you're going to attract a woman who is angry and bitter...

Answer 4

I think you are looking for your Ms. Right in all the wrong places. If you want a nice, decent woman, stop looking in bars.

Go volunteer in your community and meet somebody who's too busy living life to conform to shallow images.

There are more decent women out there than you can count. They are as beautiful on the outside as they are on the inside.
Look for the inner beauty and you will see the outer beauty...

If you are stuck on outer beauty, just remember the door swings both ways... most decent girls are not attracted to cheap and shallow guys.

Answer 5

my dear you are spending too much time in clubs. I live in a place with no clubs anywhere around and church and school are big here. You need to go elsewhere to find some nice ladies. Who is the 'her' you refer to? Do you have one particular person in mind? Anyway it's better to meet someone in the grocery store or at the dog park or church if you want a decent girl. Location, locaton, location.

Answer 6

Where do you live? Do you really think there is only kind of woman in the entire world? Why do you choose to surround yourself with people you don't like?
For goodness sake go out and place yourself in a physical location which is frequented by people of a different nature. Sporty people go to gyms. Tarty people go to bars. Thinky people go to libraries and lectures. Horsey people go to riding schools. If you don't like the women in the places where you are going, then think outside the box, duh, and go somewhere different. There are as many kinds of women as there are men, thank god. Look for some different ones.

Answer 7

women have been fighting for their rights for so long that some have just forgotten what it was to live 50 or 60 years ago and find that you dont have a say its all so sad Ive read a lot of biographies of women who suffered dearly in those times that it makes me feel good to be born the time I was just dont get bitter and meet the right one for you

Answer 8

I think it makes girls look stupid. Its really irritaing that everywhere you go there are girls of all ages that wear clothes that hardly cover anything. They're just asking for it. I've heard so many stories about girls being raped, and the reason the attacker chose them was because of the way they dressed. I was never like that. I don't think highly of myself but at least I have enough self-respect to not dress that way to get attention or anything else. They don't even need to dress like that for guys to pay attention to them. I wear jeans and t-shirts (not tight) all the time and I get more attention that I would like. My boyfriend and I have no respect for girls like that. I think thats one of the reasons he was attracted to me in the first place.

Answer 9

I feel what u are saying man, women are not the same anymore, they are starting to let that whole independent thing get to there head, it's bad, real bad, not saying that all women are the same but dam where are the real ones, and as for the ones that go to church and claim this and that, man don't fall for it, things are not what it used to be

Answer 10

Fake women (Paris Hilton, Nicole whats her name, Lohan (whats her name?) - yes

Women however I like on the whole.

I love to talk to women, my wife is a women, and I love her, I have a couple good friends that are women, and I like them.

All in all I can understand, but I disagree with you