If you truly loved someone, would you set them free?

Answer 1

yes , my son had cancer and he continued to hang on no matter how bad it was for him . he was so scared to leave me alone , i told him ," baby you gotta go now , momma will always love you and miss you but god needs you now " . it broke my heart to say those words , but it was killing me to watch him suffer . now he is in heaven , no sickness ,pain or suffering . so yes if you truly love someone you can set them free......

Answer 2

I've never been in that position but I'm thinking that if I really loved that person like no other that I would be so blinded by my love that I wouldn't even be able to contemplate leaving them...of course if he wanted to leave then I would totally set him free no matter how in love I was with him.

Answer 3

The same happened to me. She's just scared of you being older. Tell her you don't mind waiting for her. That you will be a strong pillar that will take care of her in any possible situation. You just have to let her know that you'll do anything for her. If you think you can't do that much then just give up. In my case I was so close, but one day her mom saw me... That threw us way back. And then she moved to another school, so yeah its kinda sad. I used to hear her say she that she liked me but that I was three years older. At that moment she was eight grade and I eleventh. Just be honest to your feelings and don't give up. In the end just be honest, if she's acting mature for her age than just overpass that and be even more mature bro. Let her know you're the only you in the world and her perfect match. PS; Little details count do something you know she'll like but never expected you'd do. That always work.

Answer 4

hmmm im not quite sure what you mean. Maybe you need to add more information to this question.

There is only one thing i can think of from this question and that is when a loved one is dying from a fatal illness would you let them die. I personally would only if i knew there was no cure. I would only do that because i wouldnt want to see them in pain or distress. I would want them to be happy in heaven.

If that is not what you are talking about then ignore my answer.

Answer 5

Yes. You have to be secure with yourself to let them go. It has happened to me. We have been married now for 23 years. "If you love someone, set them free, if they don't come back, there was no love, if they do come back, you never lost the love."

Answer 6

I did, and he came back. We'd been dating a couple of years and took an amicable break. A couple of months later we just kind of got back together - nothing dramatic or planned. We've been married 16 years now and have 3 kids; still love each other like teenagers.

Answer 7

thats only something you see in movies, i dont see the point in setting something you truly love free. you would just try everything in your power to make things work. dont give up and "set them free".

Answer 8

Hell no!!!

If I truly loved them, I would want to keep them by my side forever otherwise I would lose them and feel really sad.

And what would be the fun in that, I ask you?

Answer 9

I wouldn't have to set them free as I would never have entrapped them in the first place. They would be with me because they wanted to be there not because I trap them in....

Answer 10

If its true love, then they will come back to you. But yeah if I really loved them I would. If you love them, then you have to put them before you, not after.