this guy promises he will call me like after work and he dosent. Should i confront him or just let it be?
2007-04-08 15:47:33 · 17 answers · asked by Kayla L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Not a single thing. Why say something? He obviously doesnt care that much so why empower him and make him believe he has that effect on you? Be cordial when you see him, dont act angry or anything and if he says he will call say: yes thanks and dont wait for the call. NEVER WAIT FOR A GUY TO CALL. Let it be.
Good luck
2007-04-08 15:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by nyenelra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means confront him, but don't do it angrily. Be cool and calm. Ask him if he got busy or forgot. He may have a reason. But then again, his not calling may be because there is something in your relationship that is making him anxious. Is he relaxed around you? Does he suggest things for the two of you to do? or Does he always have reasons not to do things with you? Does he otherwise avoid you?
Do you see him because you go looking for him or because he comes looking for you? If he doesn't come looking for you then he is avoiding you. You will have to find out what he is feeling towards you. Since he is a guy, that will be like pulling teeth.
2007-04-08 23:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by r.wiccan 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just a tip for the future. When anyone promises to call and never do it means he/she doesn't know how to say he/she doesn't like you without hurting your feelings. They choose to ignore the fact that they don't like you by not calling you. You say this person is your FRIEND, well if he was your friend you wouldn't have to beg him to call you. Please get up to speed here and see the truth. He is not your friend and he doesn't like you.
2007-04-08 22:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by sg300c 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well hes your guy friend so is there any love relationship? and it depends on how long he hasnt called you. i think if you wait for maybe two more days and he doesnt call then just go call him and say something random and dont mention any stuff about why didnt he call you. but you can if you want, when you say like why didnt he call you and his reaction is like "i was busy" or anything without hesitaion then he was probably busy and forgot. or if his reaction was like "ohhh im sorry." then he forgot and you should forgive him :]
2007-04-08 22:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by triciaismyname 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let it be. Dont chase after him. It is better to play hard to get than sit around waiting for him. Good luck.
2007-04-08 22:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by kendi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him and act like you don't care. Guys hate this and it also turns the tables a bit.
2007-04-08 22:50:20 · answer #6 · answered by Fat Boy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend Paige has this other friend jhabri who calls her all the time after school. Paige is always gettin upset when she calls. i guess she just don't want to talk to her. you need to confront your friend and see what is up. you don't deserve to have a friend who doesn't want to be your friend.
2007-04-08 22:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by Chistopher A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let it go, pretend you dont care...and get used to it. Thats just how guys are.
2007-04-08 22:49:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on
2007-04-08 22:50:19 · answer #9 · answered by Up your Maslow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him and move to the next, 'Quid pro quo'
2007-04-08 22:49:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋