am i wrong for being mad?

Question

my girlfriend thinks im wrong but what do you think. before me she cheated on her boyfriend for seven yrs with this mailman. so my trust in her isnt 100 percent. the issue is she goin to this wedding with him. shes been talking to him and hangin out with him alot these days and i approached her about it and she says i have no rite to be mad. i thinks she cheating. wut do u think

Answer 1

Tough call, but coming from a female angle it just doesn't smell quite right. You're worth more respect than that. Not meaning to sound judgemental but can't help it at this point. I've been dumped on, I've also been the one to dump on someone else (most regretfully) on and I've seen my "boy" friends go through the same routine. It hurts. Something doesn't quite smell right in this state of Denmark. Let her know and be prepared to move on because of it.

Answer 2

You have every right to be mad. But, perhaps you should sit her down and let her know your reasons of why your not happy. Let her see it from your point of view and if she still doesn't understand or tells you, you have no right to be mad you need to tell her you do. Ask her what she would think if it was you going to the wedding with some other girl you cheated with and see what she says. If you haven't already throw it out there that you feel she maybe cheating on you and see what she says see what her reaction is. You can read off alot from a persons reaction. But if your gut feeling is telling you she is cheating then sorry to say it she just miught be. Always follow your gut feeling. Good luck.

Answer 3

It's not about being mad. It's about being smart enough to decide to get out of relationship in which your partner is obviously cheating on you. Getting mad won't fix anything--but leaving a cheater is the only thing to do if you have any pride.

Answer 4

I think trust is what builds a relationship. And if there is no trust there is no relationship. Now I don't think your wrong in suspecting that, but if you knew her past than you should have known that this problem was coming sooner or later. I think you should let her know how you feel and let her make her own decision. If she cares about you she wouldn't go.

Answer 5

Whether yo have the right or not isn't the issue. You have the privilege being that she is your girlfriend. I wouldn't trust her either to be honest with you and you have proof that she's done that sort of thing before. Bottom line is that if you don't trust her, then she isn't worth your time.

Answer 6

Well, sorry to say, I do believe she most likely is hiding something from you. If she's going to a wedding with this man instead of you, I'd tell her bye for now. Her past history indicates she has severe committment issues.

I'm sorry - I'm sure you will find a girl worthy enough to be with you. As it stands, she isn't the right one for you.

Answer 7

It is hard to make this decision. However, this is the bottom line. Drop Her, Dude. It will become a problem if you don't. And if you give her another chance, it'll get even worse. Leave on good terms, and never look back.

Answer 8

your girlfriend should not be attending a wedding with another guy. Why is that even happening in the 1st place? Don't be a doormat, you don't deserve this lack of respect

Answer 9

a. I think you should go to the wedding with her.

b. If she is going to the wedding with him because... is she his date?? He doesn't have any more girlfriends to go with??

Sounds that she is very in mature or that is not ready for a formal relationship yet.

Answer 10

I think you have a right to know what's going on. You need the full truth from her of what is going on.

At that point, then you can be mad.