Are you quick to judge?

Question

But slow to forgive.

Answer 1

No, I try to get to know the person a bit before I form an opinion of them. I listen to what others say about people I'm meeting for the first time, but I form my opinion based on what is see and hear from that person and how they treat me. I have also learned to forgive quickly. It's not worth holding a grudge because all it does it stay in your mind and control your thoughts. Forgiveness is the key to good relationships. Forgiveness also takes away the control the people who hurt your have over your thoughts and feelings. I truly believe in the saying "never judge a book by it's cover" You have to get to know the inside before you form an opinion.

Answer 2

as humans we sometimes think we are master of our own univserse.We think that the world involves around us.hence we think that we are masters of own things we do and we are all homogenous and same
Because we are master of own destiny, we tend to think anything less perfect is unacceptable.Even the slightest mistake, we blame it on the invididual who commits the error accidemtally or intentionally.Our dream is perfection and hence w eare angry when this is committed
The perfection involves to a subconcious feeling call judging.since we already believe that we are master of our own destiny.the right is ours to make.Judging is not abad thing.we learn through judging-through competitions, sports lessons and other life values we can pick up in life.But what happen if this perfection envelops into something dangerous where we are quick to judge and slow to forgive( forvgive other ppl mistake)
This can be seen by the invivdudal background and education.In a globalised enviroment, where everything is counted as dollars and sense, it is imperative that in such a society, it is also translated down right to the basic structure which is the family and school.young kids are told if they do not get the perfect score or get the highest score in a competition, parents are unforgiving of their children';s mistakes.Hence a physcological brainwashing of the child has alrady happened,He grows up thinking nothing less than 100% or the perfect score and cannot forgive others for the faults and errors.This will continue to his children grandchildeen and so on
For me coming in a socalist yet democratic system.We are told that nothing less the best is unacceptable.Many a times i ask myself if this is alright but i tell myself just do your best and u be fine.Hence this translates into my dealings with the common ppl.I dont judges easily and i give chance after chance.The invidual is normally grateful and does not makes the same mistake twice. i ahve raelised by judging not only does it make u frustrate dbut it could make u sick as wlell you grow morw white hair and maybe get aheart attack
hence this notion quick to judge and slow to forgive is something i would not recommend

Answer 3

No I am not quick to judge BUT I am slow to forgive.

Answer 4

I am not quick to judge, but indeed slow to forgive. In my husband's case it takes a lot of shopping to make me to forgive him and he knows that, so the guy is very careful with my "... and I mean it this time!"

Answer 5

I am quick to judge. I tend to go by first impressions, but even when I've formulated a judgment on someone I always consider the possibility that I could have been wrong and give people the chance to prove me wrong. Many times I've had to change my first impression of someone and admit I was wrong.

I am very forgiving...sometimes to a fault, but no matter how hard I try I cannot erase what was done to me (don't forget easily).

Answer 6

Not quick to judge. If I get hurt really bad, I can forgive but the trust takes some time to return. You know the saying, "once bitten, twice shy". It's like that.

Answer 7

Unfortunately I am quick to judge and it is not something I like about myself. But I like to think I am quick to forgive for the most part.

Answer 8

I try not to judge people at all Im not very good at it and I think its wrong. (who am I to judge)

One thing I hate about myself and Im trying to work on is forgiving others. Usually when someone hurts me or does something I dont agree with I know I have to forgive, but its so hard for me. (Im working on it!)

Answer 9

i'm slow to judge and quick to forgive but i never forget

Answer 10

yeah, but I am trying to overcome that prob. of judge. I am quick to forgive too though. What about you?