Well, my ex, before we broke up, did a couple of things that made me begin to doubt him. For example, he would get calls everyday at the same time from someone. He would limit the time that we would spend together, either because he said it was because of school or work. He would come up with the excuse that he was sleepy and wanted to go to sleep at night and not want to talk to me. Also, our intimate life was going downhill. Could it be that he was cheating on me? Or what do you guys think?
2007-04-08 13:09:54 · 14 answers · asked by Lessons_in_life10 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It could be he was cheating, or it could be he realised the relationship wasn't going where he wanted and he just wanted out. The only way to know for sure is to ask him, but if its already over there may be no point anyway.
Move on.
2007-04-08 13:16:44 · answer #1 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your situation kinda sounds like a situation a friend of mine was in. Her boyfriend began acting kind of odd and would receive a lot of calls from blocked phone numbers (like whoever called blocked their number so it would show up as "restricted" or "private" or something like that), started seeing her less saying he was busy with school, work, and going to the gym (the gym kinda had to do with the type of schooling he is doing), and whenever he wasn't at the gym, school, or work she would ask to see him and he would constantly say he was too tired. She got really suspicious and began accusing him of cheating on her and would question his whereabouts and would freak if he didn't answer her calls. It took awhile but she began to realize that he really loved and cared about her and that if she didn't stop accusing and demanding to know where he was and who he was with, that she would lose him. She discovered that she could trust him. Anyway sorry for the long story but the point is, your ex might've really been busy with school and work and that would lead to him being tired and just wanting to sleep at night. There is no sure way to tell. But he is your ex for a reason right? So there is no point in worrying about the past.
2007-04-08 13:38:07 · answer #2 · answered by Beautiful♥Baby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The way you make it sound kinda makes me think he had someone on the side. However, was he really busy with school and work? I know some of my ex's really DID have commitments with work/school, then again they didn't get phone calls at the same time everyday from the same person.....sounds like probablly......but does it matter anymore? You aren't together so screw him!!! Just ignore him and be happy you learned before you were in serious terms with him, like marriage!
2007-04-08 13:45:03 · answer #3 · answered by RoniLea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be glad it is over!....He was definitely cheating or either thinking about....Some guys don't know how to break up with a female and don't want to look like the bad guy so they really want the female to be the one to break up first....so if you argue about it then it is their way out, by pinning it all on you'...You don't need a loser or a coward, be fortunate!(smile)!...ps, I should know, im going thru the same thing right now!!(LOL)
2007-04-08 13:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by tajakitten 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating!
2007-04-08 13:18:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well not necessarily... i've been through this a lot of times but still he's my boyfriend till now... we talked.. we cleared things up... the number 1 rule: you can doubt but you can never accuse him not unless you have the facts and evidence to prove that he is really cheating.. even guys are even caught red-handed can still get out of it....
if you think this relationship isnt healthy anymore then that's the time you decide to break up.. relationship won't grow if the foundation of trust isnt that strong..
goodluck and hope you have somebody that you can trust...
2007-04-08 14:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by yen yen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, i'm the only that thinks ur amish besides, you in basic terms asked a query some days in the past approximately making out with some lady, and now ur flirting with 3 different women? specific it is cheating.
2016-10-02 09:33:44 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well of course he did not want to spent time with you because he was interested in some one else too when a guy is not open in his relationship there is some thing else going on so i am pretty sure he was cheating on you and you need to stay away from that guy
2007-04-08 13:14:41 · answer #8 · answered by khanaliimran 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely he is cheating and using you. Go by his house and watch on those nights when he to sleepy. Hide don't let him see you and you bet your boots he is cheating.
2007-04-08 13:16:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, he is, he doesn't have anymore time for you because he is putting his time into someone else, move on because you are much better off without him and can find someone who actually wants to spend time with you....
2007-04-11 06:59:01 · answer #10 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋