When I was 11 or 12 I had a huge crush on 1 of my bro's friends. And sadly, that crush has not faded 12 yrs later. Me & this guy used 2 be quite close friends, but lately he has been ignoring me. I admit, now that I've grown up I'm not the sweet girl that used 2 glue myself to him & tell him I really like him or kiss him on the cheek. Or the girl he used 2 drive home & talk 2 if I had problems. But he don't talk 2 me now. What happened? I still really wanna be w/him. I used 2 think he liked me. He's hated any guy I dated, sayin they weren't right 4 me. He is constantly staring at me whenever we are around eachother. On occasion he has tried 2 take me home, but I told him I wanted more than a 1 nite stand. He said he understood. But then nothing? He still stares @ me all the time, gives me a hug when he sees me, but hardly talks. What is going on? I'm confused, can anyone sort it out?? Does he think cuz I turned down a 1 nite stand, I don't like him now? I don't get it...plz HELP!!!
2007-04-08 08:20:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No...he doesn't have a girlfriend right now. And it's not like I'm some crazy girl who is only hung up on him...I do date other guys..it's not like I am waiting for him and only him. I've always felt a connection between us....and we were always fairly close......
Yes he is 6 years older than me.
2007-04-08 08:27:51 · update #1
It sounds like this guy doesn't know how to act around you. he obviously likes you but is confused as to what to do around you. or maybe he is playing hard to get.
2007-04-08 08:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by padmevalaski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So I'm assuming you're 24 and he's even older. You are both adults capable of having an intelligent conversation together. Tell him why you're confused and ask him what he's feeling. At least you'll know. None of us can tell you what he's thinking. You'll feel so much better knowing one way or the other.
2007-04-08 15:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by Katiecat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he just wants a one night stand, then forget it! It sounds like you want a relationship with him. There's no reason for you to wait around...if anything, he will agree to have a relationship, have sex with you and then ditch you. Let him go. There are better people out there.
2007-04-08 15:25:26 · answer #3 · answered by Jimbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny, tell me how you expect to have an adult relationship with this guy when you can't even communicate like adults. TALK TO HIM! stop assuming. talk.. it's the only way you'll find out.
2007-04-08 15:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by emanon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to forget this guy if you're 24 and writing like this. You have more important things to do.
2007-04-08 15:23:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he doesnt hate u hes just in a thinking stage
meanin hes thinkin bout u
2007-04-08 15:24:31 · answer #6 · answered by PG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...........i am going to reply u but pls also reply mine toooooooooo
the problem is that you guys are too close try not seeing him for a week or two then he will love u again....well.that is my best advise for now
peace!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-08 15:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by junior mafia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem full of yourself, maybe that is turning him off.
2007-04-08 15:26:03 · answer #8 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he likes you more> call him talk to him then he has to talk to you right.um maybe he has a girlfriend
2007-04-08 15:24:47 · answer #9 · answered by Allyson♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS IS WIERD JUST TALK TO HIM UNTIL HE TALKS BAK TO YOU
2007-04-08 15:24:54 · answer #10 · answered by Mari* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋