hey my dad doesnt like my boyfriend first cause he's dominican plus he's gotten into trouble before but beside that he just dont like him my dad is one of those old time cubans that believe that cubans only go out with cubans and doesnt want us together and now i found out that i'm pregnant by my boyfriend what do i do.please i need help some good advice
2007-04-08 07:45:52 · 15 answers · asked by doggy48fl 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well my opinion is your dad is just going to have to deal with it and when his grandchild comes it should be fine as long as your man is by your side for the whole pregnancy good luck
2007-04-08 07:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by KEITH A J 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Your grammar is terrible, so I had a no longer common time analyzing your positioned up (P.S. you're no longer texting at here, so adequate with the quasi-abbreviations!) If he did no longer prefer to be a dad, he could've secure himself, and you may could boot - you're patently too youthful to be having a baby, regardless of the undeniable fact that that's too late for that now. you have numerous questioning to do and that i propose you refer to him and your mothers and dads and choose the way you will help this baby you're forcing into the international. From the sound of your positioned up, neither certainly one of you're mature adequate to handle the duty you're approximately to handle.
2016-10-21 08:53:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there's nothing you can do to make your dad like him. but when the baby comes and he sees it for the first time I'm sure that he will start to like him at least a little. plus all dad's are like this my dad got made at me and my boyfriend (now husband) when i got pregnant but after the baby was born and he held the baby for the first time, and saw that my husband stayed with me he started to like him now there buddies. and just so you know me and my husband are both white so see it's just a dad thing to not like the boy that got his little girl pregnant. things will get better, when the baby here
2007-04-08 08:14:54 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. CuTT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you arent going to like this! my father in law didnt talk to me for the first 3 years! it wasnt till about 5 years that we could even sit in the same room together let alone hold a conversation. only thing i can say is do not try to push them together, your boyfriend will have to prove to your father that he will stick with you and take care of both you and that new baby thats on the way!
2007-04-08 09:17:11 · answer #4 · answered by gands4ever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll put this from a father's viewpoint. Getting my daughter pregnant is hardly an endearing situation, regardless of your ethnicity. You took advantage of her trust. If you want my approval to date/marry my daughter, get an education, get an honest job, support your child. Show respect to your elders and to my daughter. And stay out of trouble.
2007-04-08 08:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by greydoc6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all.....u cant help who u fall in love with. As for what your dad believes, that is a stereotype and times have changed. As long as u are happy, that is all that really matters.
2007-04-11 18:08:44 · answer #6 · answered by spacelee666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its who you love and want to be with,theres no telling what your parents would pick out for you.He could be nice and good in front of them and then cheat or treat you bad once ya'll got married.If your man is buy your side then that is all that you need ,once they see your child they will learn to deal with it,and if ya'll get married ,i know they will welcome him to the family some time soon,i think most of our parents are old school,and they want to keep you safe,i have a 11 month old daughter and i think about what kind of man she will be with too.They just see there daughters as fragile and want to protect them.Good Luck
2007-04-08 08:09:21 · answer #7 · answered by aejr2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your boyfriend are going to be together and raise this baby your father is going to have to deal with it. Its your life not his. he cant control who you date.
2007-04-09 12:48:02 · answer #8 · answered by thatgirlyouknow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is leading your life? You or your father ? You can't please everyone. It is your decision to have this man as your boyfriend, and now the father of your child. Your father is just going to have to deal with it.
2007-04-08 07:51:18 · answer #9 · answered by trikelkelley 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
How do you think? Send a message to your brain to say "ddad im pregnant. I made a mistake and now I have to face the consequences. please support me"
2007-04-08 08:51:22 · answer #10 · answered by Kelly Taylor 49 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋