I'm in a relationship like that now, it's like an addiction, continued even though it's unhealthy and makes me unhappy.
2007-04-08 06:21:42
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answered by omgithinkiknow 7
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It's ironic you ask this question because my boyfriend and I are completely opposite and we clash everyday but as bad as it sound we maintain and we have been together for 5years and I'm not unhappy. We have a kid together and I find it that even though we don't see eye to eye we are mature enough to try and listen even if we don't agree to each others point of view and I wouldn't trade him for the world.
2007-04-08 13:28:35
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answered by miss_peaches 3
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Yes, I have. I dated this guy off and on for a few years, and lived with him for almost a year. We got along great as friends/f--k-buddies/casual dating, but we tended to quarrel over little things when we lived together. Also, we both had a few personal issues. At the time, I had a lot of financial issues that I was trying to straighten out by working tons of overtime and I tended to get extremely aggravated any time that things went wrong out of my control. My now-ex would get annoyed with me about these things. My ex had some issues too...he had a bit of an alcoholism problem and an addictive personality. He also had manic depression and a bad family life in his past. It got to the point that one time, I had to call the ambulance because he did something destructive(he didn't realize it at the time). So after that, I realized that I had to break up with him even though I loved him and had always kinda planned to spend my life with him.
Right after I dumped him, he begged for us to get together again. So we did, but while living apart. Then things started to get back to normal and we started quarreling again. Not long after, he dumped me because I lied to him by saying that I was going to work, when in reality I went to my female friend's modelling contest to root her on(he didn't like me hanging out with her, simply because her boyfriend and him didn't like each other). We still went out off and on again, but eventually we went our separate ways and it wasn't the prettiest. Then a few months later, he died and I've been devastated ever since. I wonder if perhaps things wouldn't have happened that way if we'd stayed together. However, my friends sometimes tell me that I shouldn't blame myself for ending things(both directly or indirectly) and that we obviously had too many problems/issues to stay together. But I still feel really hurt about everything that happened to him.
2007-04-09 15:12:10
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answered by buffalo_billz_2003 3
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I kept it going even though i knew it was bad for me. One day, I just had enough, broke it off, and never looked back but it took me 3 years to get there. 3 long years of hell.
2007-04-08 13:19:02
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answered by Kiss My Shaz 7
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Lived with one for a year. Then had a terrible break-up. The psycho called me out of the blue yesterday and I hung up on her.
2007-04-08 13:20:52
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answered by KC Slim 5
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yes in high school.
dated a guy that i had nothing in common with. he was good looking but had no future. he did not go onto uni or college and i went to uni and met my finance. you are allowed one stupid meaningless relationship before you are 29.
2007-04-08 13:25:49
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes that is what your 20's are for.
I got out in nick of time.
2007-04-08 13:21:55
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answered by Anonymous
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well i am falling in love with my best friend;s ex who is taken
that sucks
i know nothing will ever come of it
so that sucks
2007-04-08 13:23:15
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answered by Anonymous
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All the time.. I fall in love way too easy.
2007-04-08 13:19:20
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answered by Anonymous
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yes.....in my last relationship.......turns out i was in love with having a boyfriend, i wasnt really in love with the guy.........i let it go on for almost 2 months......
2007-04-08 13:26:50
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answered by *~kirsti~* 3
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